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Name: simon
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mum 13 year old girl has adhd and is anorexic she wont talk to me and because i am the only perent and works in a truck i dont have time to speand with her do any of you know what i should do?
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Name: rosa | Date: Jan 19th, 2006 5:28 AM
if your daughter is a mum at the age of 13 it would be because you dont have any time for her sit down a talk to her see what you can do 

Name: vicky | Date: Feb 11th, 2006 6:51 PM
i feel really sorry for u i hope your daughter will be okay in the furture i have a friend that is exactly the same but he is a 14 year old boy. 

Name: emtf71 | Date: Feb 11th, 2006 7:10 PM
Boy that is hard. maybe you can find information form the guidence counceler at school. They could problemly pet you in the right direction. Or maybe your doctor. You really have to dig for help when your child has adhd that's what I found out . Well good luck to you and your daughter. 

Name: Diane | Date: Feb 12th, 2006 3:27 PM
Single mom with 15 year old girl with adhd help 

Name: brandon | Date: Feb 26th, 2006 8:13 PM
tell her the world cares about her and not eating kills not get you skinny. good luck 

Name: jason | Date: Apr 4th, 2006 10:31 PM
im 14 i hav adhd if she got msn tell her to add me at [email protected] maybe i can sort of talk to her maybe to make her eat again 


Name: sarah | Date: Apr 29th, 2006 10:54 PM
i am 14 and i think you should try to back off. give her some space. and let her come to you 

Name: jeyda | Date: Jun 28th, 2006 3:46 PM
dude what if i fall pregtnet at the age of 13 what will my parents do? 

Name: phill | Date: Jun 28th, 2006 7:35 PM
ya, my 13 year old wont talk to me because I would not let her go to a party 

Name: whitney | Date: Jun 14th, 2007 3:56 AM
does she have friends 

Name: irish4 | Date: Jun 14th, 2007 5:58 PM
Hi Simon.......my heart goes out to you and your daughter..... I have a 15.14.13 and my 10 yr old is ADHD / mildly Autistic. Right now... you have to be there. She is crying out there for you......... the anorexia is her way of getting you to pay attention. Parenting his hard........but a child with any type of disability feels shunned and lost and looks to us for security. Your daughter isn't feeling that...you can turn this all around.....hope I helped.......you guys take care. 

Name: sharon x | Date: Jun 17th, 2007 7:56 PM
hiyha im a single mam with 1 son 18 and 1 daughter 13 just act like a mam and a dad to them if ya no what a mean tell her she can talk in confidence to you and ya wont think anything bad of it dont read her dairys and stuff like that knock before you go into her room let her have sleepovers and show her excitment xoxoox 

Name: mar22 | Date: Jul 7th, 2007 10:42 PM
well you could always try to change jobs so you can spend more time with her it is very important for a dad and daughter to have a strong bond or she may seek it out in the wrong ways when she meets boys. kids always come out in behaviours first before we ever figure out what is bothering them, she may be anorexic because that is the only thing she has control over, also if she has no female role model she may be anorexic because shes imbarassed about having a period and asking for the products one never knows what the issues are but being thier more may help with you feeling their for her and her feeling better that your their for her too, im no expert just a few thought hope you figure it out good luck and all the best 

Name: thegr8guy | Date: Jul 19th, 2007 5:29 AM
adhd is an exuses or a way out of responcibilty if u do ever read this i u need to know god will help u.i cant do much for u but i can tell u god loves u and ur never a single parent god is always there for u and u need to believe that cuz ur life will be ezier.try going to church it will be rough the first few weeks but after 2 or 3 weeks it will start to be a little more intresting trust me.and if u work in a truck try taking her with u lol ROAD TRIPS are the best i love them if u want to talk to me anymore u can catch me at [email protected] cyazzz=P 

Name: parksmomof4 | Date: Jul 25th, 2007 1:06 PM
Mr. thegr8guy ~ The ONLY thing (including your spelling) you have correct in your listing is that God (should be cap.) does love this single father and his family!! I was disgusted by your statement that ADHD is an excuse or a way to get out of responsibilities! When my 11 yr. old son misses a dose of meds. and tells me at night that he is sorry for having a bad day, but he was really trying, is he just trying to use his disorder as an excuse?! Please read my posting / reply to gnc on ~ ADHD "TICS"? ~ maybe you will actually gain a little knowledge about this disorder! Until then do not tell me or other parents who deal with this everyday that it is an excuse/way out of responsibility!! 

Name: willem | Date: Aug 6th, 2007 8:48 PM
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Name: john | Date: Aug 8th, 2007 9:31 AM
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Name: ERIK | Date: Aug 17th, 2007 6:21 AM
HOW ARE YOU DOING DO YOU HALF PHON 

Name: ERIK | Date: Aug 17th, 2007 6:22 AM
HOW ARE YOU DOING DO YOU HALF PHON. 

Name: adam | Date: Aug 22nd, 2007 4:16 PM
I want to meet a hot and nice girl 

Name: dam | Date: Aug 22nd, 2007 4:21 PM
i my name is adam 

Name: kirsten | Date: Aug 23rd, 2007 3:28 PM
my brer has adhd
yooh should sit her doon
and just explain that yooh will make mare time for her
and see if shes up for it?
reply to me when yooh have tryed it 

Name: REY MYSTERIO | Date: Aug 24th, 2007 11:56 AM
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Name: Cody | Date: Aug 26th, 2007 6:14 AM
you need to talk to het face and help her get over her ED or send her to rehab since the ED will get worse and worse untill she dies 

Name: april | Date: Aug 26th, 2007 9:35 PM
you should take a brake and talk to her cuz if not you might lose her and you wouldnt want to do that would you 

Name: jayke | Date: Sep 29th, 2007 11:43 PM
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Name: autumn_leaves | Date: Oct 14th, 2007 3:49 AM
First of all, I commend you for being a single father involved in his child's life. ADHD children are hard to cope with at times. The first thing I can tell u, is DO NOT ignore her anorexia. She needs a child psychologist or counselor to speak with who specializes in eating disorders. Anorexia turns bad fast, and you cannot let this go. Eating disorders form because the person with them feels like their life is out of control. They can control their food intake, therefore, feeling in control when they are actually totally out of control. There is also the social stigma on being overweight and that thin equals happy and beautiful. She needs treated for both disorders, the ADHD could be causing some of the anorexia. She is also more than likely depressed, as there are not many anorexic people. Please get her to a psychologist immediately. She has to want to get better, but speaking with someone and understanding more of why she is doing this may help her make that decision. You need to change jobs or anything to put her first right now. I know that is easier said than done. Anorexia takes a toll on the body. Many of the problems are irreversible. I know all this because I'm a grown woman who has survived purging anorexia. I will always have a heart murmur, an irregular heart beat, which gives me a greater risk of stroke and hearattack and I will always have bones of a 60 year old woman (aggressive osteoporosis) and I'm only 32. I pray for you both and I hope she can overcome the anorexia. She is worth so much more. 

Name: autumn_leaves | Date: Oct 14th, 2007 3:51 AM
***correction*** I meant to say there are not many HAPPY anorexic people. 

Name: christian | Date: Jan 30th, 2009 9:26 PM
hi i have adhd to so if ur near by u wana go out 

Name: cody | Date: Feb 28th, 2009 10:09 AM
how old is your daughter 

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