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Name: Daddy2be
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Hey everyone my name is Juan, I’m 18 years old and I just finished my freshman year of college. Me ad my girlfriend who is 19 have been bets friends for three years. We graduated fort eh same high school and went tot he same college. We’ve been going out for 7 months and we are so in love. We just found out we were pregnant, and were very scared but in my mind I knew I couldn’t afford to be scared and we have to take responsibilities. We both wan tot continue school and get our BSN (Bachelors of science nursing). We know its going to be hard in the beginning because we have child, we need jobs, a place to live, and school is a lot of time. I need advice on how should I go about this. I don’t know how imp going to tell my family, but im really not worried because I have faith me and my girlfriend will put through. I love her so much and its such a miracle that she is pregnant... im a happy father who just wants help on how to raise, be a student and live life to the fullest.
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Name: Jehni 23yr mother of 2 | Date: Jun 30th, 2008 8:46 PM
Hey Juan, Keep your head held high I dont know where your from but most places you can get on government aid program called ccs for child care and they pay most if not all the child care, especially for students. They also have aid for your girlfriend for medical expenses while she's prego. since you are a student and under 21 most places you will qualify to. Dont even think of quiting school because it is very hard to go back when you have a kid if you keep going you will get in a schedule mode to keep going....since yall are not in nursing school yall can take yalls classes at different times so yall can trade off on baby duty and on studying times trade off different times so yall wont be overwhelmed....if yall work together it can happen and dont make her be the one to wake up every time the baby cries at night he or she belongs to both of yall...not just her....You will be a great dad and shell be a great mother so dont doubt yourself...God Bless Yall, and Good Luck.... 

Name: Daddy2be | Date: Jul 2nd, 2008 7:04 AM
jehni thnk u so mcuh me and wife are from rhode island/new york. is there way that we ca keep in contatc thru email..we would like yo update u and what we have ben doing and we can give u more advice 

Name: Daddy2be | Date: Jul 2nd, 2008 7:04 AM
jehni thnk u so mcuh me and wife are from rhode island/new york. is there way that we ca keep in contatc thru email..we would like yo update u and what we have ben doing and u can give us more advice 

Name: lisasing | Date: Jul 2nd, 2008 4:57 PM
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