| hi i have a 10 year old son jamie who has autism,it was hard work when he was younger but is much easier now he is older. Its just that people sometimes stare at him and ask whats wrong with him, i feel protective as his mum. ↑ |
this is for Kathy Hotz -
I tried to send an email to your address but for some reason it came back - I think it's my computer
you indicated your son is 9 years old and has a temper
I have 2 boys, ages 9 and 7 both autistic
the older one is the one who is so adaptable, loving and wanting to play with others (the younger one is more self contained) - but the older one has temper, so far as to hit himself about 4 months ago which would knock any adult down, then before xmas he started hitting others both accidentally and intentionally now he has started hitting himself again that I think children's aide will be called soon!
I am not sure how to deal with the tantrums - ignore it (that's what my husband does which I think makes it worse), spank him (not worth it), discipline him (by this time he has reached his peak and he does not listen) - just wondered how to deal with it and if you have any ideas
also - do you have toilet training ideas - both are trained for no 1 but not no 2 -
actually, anyone could answer - I would appreciate it
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| hi my son (9) has severe aspergers. im a single mum in yorkshire england. anyone in the area who wants to chat or has advice on why he talks like norman collier (!!) email me at shelliemoll@hotmail.com ↑ |
| hi our son Daxus is now 4 we found out he was autistic when he was 3 and a half we are trying to potty train if any advice please feel free to email us at taylorsmatdd@aol.com and we would love to chat with everyone ↑ |
Cindy..
your son is nearing puberty.. he is going through hormonal changes and NO understanding of what is going on. 12 is such a normal age for "behaviors" to be exhibited, even in typical kids.
You need to find someone that will help you through the next stages of his life. The next 10 years are very confusing for him unless someone can help him approach it and deal with it. Best of luck ↑ |
| i have daughter who is nearly 7 who is autistic i would like to chat 2 ↑ |
| hi janine dont worry i know your new to this.my son was also 15months when we told he was autistic. now hes 9.it was a long road but with alot of help it gets easyer.how is your son doing. if you need help with anything just email me. ↑ |
| Hi, I have 2 daughters . 1 is autistic, the baby is PDD. ↑ |
| Even though my autistic son is no longer in my care. I'm willing to share my experiences. My son was diagnosed with autism in July of 2004. ↑ |
Hello to all you fantastic parents with special child, I am the mother of 5 great boys, 4 of whom have Autistic Spectrum Disorder, 3 with autism, 1 with Asperger from 14 years to 5 years. Our eldest son age 17 has dyslexia. Life is a constant rollercoaster of highs and lows. We live in Ireland, both my husband and I have given up our jobs to care for our sons. Is there anyone out there who has 4 children on the Spectrum? Would love to talk to parents with multiple children with ASD.
Take care everyone. Mary ↑ |
| i am the mom of a 21` year old with autism kelly has been suffering ffrom constipiation since she was about 18 months old she eats all regular foods recently she had gall bladder surgary now she is full of gas and even more constipiated my nerves are gone with the doctors ↑ |
Hi, My name is Robin And i have a 13 year old son who is Autistic. When Ricky was 1 and a half he was dianoised with Tubulur Scerorsis (T.S) since than he has been dianosied with Autsium and OCD (obsesesive compulsion disorder) My spelling stinks but iam lucky to have this moment... Ricky is in the tub so i have a few before he starts yelling. We have a meeting tommrow with his school because of his behavior he has been hitting, cussing telling the teachers hes the boss ETC.... Ricky talks in a third person most the time i will hear him say "Go ahead Ricky ask mom if she will let you go outside"
I have had more than a few strange looks from that one. okay iam back i knew it wouldnt be long i have read a few of your posts most of your children are still very young if i could turn back time and do anything over it would be the way i did things for ricky instead of taking the time to let him learn to do it his self. It is always easier to be in a hurry and just put thier socks and shoes on them it takes them 15 minutes and the whinning!!.... it is easier to just do it we will work on it later well....11 years later iam still dressing Ricky . So much i would love to share with you iam so consumed by Ricky and this Autisum life i dont even remeber the last time i took a shower without comming out to find Ricky sitting out side the door waiting on me. Others dont understand not really not unless thier child has autisum it is a word i have grown to hate a word i have grown to defend a word i have grown to accept as my own for that is my life because Ricky is my life. and Autisum is his life. Iam back i had to tape Ricky's head phones both sides why? i have no clue but he insisted Iam tired so tired as all of you can relate to escpecally the ones with older children with Autisum. I hope i find time to re visit this board and chat with all of you i would love to exchange ideas and thoughts i think the best help any of us could possibly have is one another sometimes just having a safe place to vent is something we all need from time to time..Robin GbsnMi@aol.com ↑ |
I am a 23 year old mother of two autistic children, my son Tyler 5
and my daughter Audrey 2. Both of them were diagnosed last year. I also Had a son who would now be 4 but died of S.I.D.S. in 2001, he was 3 weeks old. I would love to talk to other parents who have had any children with Autism or have ever lost a baby to S.I.D.S. ↑ |
Hi Donna
I have a 3 1/2 year old son who we suspect has autistic tendancies - we are just starting the evaluation process and I am nervous about what the outcome may be. ↑ |
| Hi, I have a three year old Son who has autism. We are doing everything possible to help him. I was wondering if anyone has issues with lack of support re the diagnosis? We have no support from family and it is very difficult to deal with. I would love to find a little support and understanding. I know that I am not the only one going through all of this. ↑ |
Ali, no your not the only one if you read thur these posts you will find as i did there are so many looking for the same thing we are, a little support and someone to tell us we are not alone.
i would love to exchange e-mails and become a friend to everyone its awaome to know there is a site where we can go and just say hey iam tired and need some support anyways e-mail me if you'd like my son is 13 autisum,behavior and other disabilities but a Great kid!!! thats what this site is for so we can hook up as friends and be there for one another!! so if anyone whats to talk you can e-mail me at GbsnMi@aol.com i have heard from 3 awsome girls thats a start of a great support system take care and stay calm...Robin ↑ |
| My son has just been diagnosed with PDD-NOS and I am lost and confused as I have had 3 different professionals tell me 3 different things from mild Pdd to Severe austim to language disorder not austim. I would love to talk to someone. ↑ |
| I am the mother of 3 I have a 15month old that doesn't speak she may mumble the words mama dada or nana but doesn't really have a clue to what she is saying, she sits and hums alot we don't have a dx of autism yet but we highly suspect it . we are unsure of where to start she has a long medical history being born 7 weeks early i would love any info if anyone has any please email me at ratullis@aol.com ↑ |
| If anyone would like to chat my email is jennyflwer5751@bellsouth.net, I have a 3 year old that was just dx as mild PDD but I have had 3 others tell me severe to not at all.I would love to talk to someone. ↑ |
we have a child with dyspraxia, hypotonia, who is autistic.
Thomas will be 8 in April and we are really worried about him not wanting to go to school, we are thinking of home education
He is really bad on stairs unable to climb down them without holiding on with both hands as his balance is very poor. ↑ |
| i have a son who si autistic and i am havieng toubles with him. any extra help or information woudl be nice.thank you. ↑ |
| Yes I would love to talk to you Donna! ↑ |
| i HAVE A NON VERBAL NINE YEAR OLD AUTISTIC SON, ANY BODY WANT TO TALK ? ANYTHING FROM SECONDARY SCHOOLS , DIET ETC ↑ |
Hi Jennifer
I have a 9 and 7 year old both autistic - limited words...both integrated in regular school
I would love to talk to other parents who are 'living the struggle' -it is a struggle right now for me, just as we are getting into a pattern, something changes... ↑ |
Hi!
My name is Jane, I recently started working with a lovely little three year old boy who is autistic and I need helplearning how to care for him. ↑ |
| Teach him sign language - - 3 is good time to start. It will open his world! Many good free sites online you can use. ↑ |
| Hello my son is 10 and autistic, I would like to talk to other parents of autistic children. ↑ |
Hello I have an autistic son who is 10 and I would love to talk to any parents out there who are in the same situation as myself.
lesleyburke@tiscali.co.uk ↑ |
| my email is grumpy7685@yahoo.com i forgot to give you my addy sorry ↑ |
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