Hi, my name is Megan Gant and I'm 14 years old. My parents were married when they were 16. They had my now 17yr. old brother, then me, 4yrs later. They got a divorce when I was too young to remember, because my mother was less than faithful. My dad re-married and I think my mother did too, I was still only about 4. She had my little sister, Jessica, a week before my father had a son, Jonah, with his new wife. My mother later then had my other two little brothers Shawn and Tyler, ages unkown. I was probaly about 7, maybe. I then lost all contact with my mother because she moved across state, and had no phone or car. She did not fight for custady and wanted no part in our lives. Somewhere in that time my dad and Melissa decided that they were not suited for each other and divorced, they still remain kind to each other. My dad had also in that time, moved back in with his parents, and my 3 aunts, and grandparents pretty much raised me untill he met Sheila, the woman I will now and always call my mother. Mom(Sheila), unable to have children, was happy with us and loves us very, very much. She raised us and my father is still married to her, but they are now considering divorce. There was a big money fight were my mom had used creit cards and we were in debt because of it. Now they seem to fight about everything. I don't want my parents to divorce, I love them both but am favorites with my mother. A few years ago I met my birth mother, and saw my little sister and brothers for the 1st time since Jessie was a young child, and the Shawn was a todler, and Tyler was a new-born. I am open to advice from anyone, expecaly kids near my age.
Thanks,
Megan ↓
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| Name: Justine | Date: Dec 1st, 2005 4:03 PM |
| Hi Megan, It must be hard for you to go through these tough times. If your family is facing a large debt it can be so stressfull for them and for you too. But you're not alone. So many people are in the same situation. Since it's hard for you to control what your parents do in this situation. I guess try to focus on the things you appreciate most and appreciate the time you have with your family now. Be honest about your insecurities about your future. be honest and tell people in your life how you are feeling. ↑ |
| Name: Maurice | Date: Jan 15th, 2006 7:23 AM |
| Name: sammy | Date: Feb 12th, 2006 8:02 PM |
| Name: twan | Date: Feb 15th, 2006 1:26 AM |
| That stuff that Megan is telling yall is true that's why I try to warn yall about it is not game to play with If u got a child on the way at a very young age like 11,12,13,14,15,16,17,18,19,and 20 years old.That's why yall kids need to listen when yall parents trying to preach to yall about not haveing sex at ayoung age and don't do drugs at a young age.B-cuz after u have the baby with the person u had sex with it's not guareeted that they going to claim yo baby or should I say it's not sure that they going to stay with yall ugly ass now what and If u have a problem then write me back saying what u got to say to me yall hoes,sluts,prosittues.Thank u very much twan for letting me no.Holla at a real P-I-M-P like me and hoes go sit down some where 4 I called yall names yall don't want me to say. ↑ |
| Name: twan | Date: Feb 15th, 2006 1:32 AM |
| Sammy don't try 2 say u soooo sorry because If I was yo girl Iwouldn't accepect it from u any wayz. ↑ |
| Name: Az | Date: Mar 11th, 2006 12:55 AM |
| im sorry n i bet u like talkin like ur in the ghetto or sumthin but u aint! i bet u havent lived one fukin day in my streets u dnt talk like "yall" and "game" u be urself and wateva happens happens. and wats this holla at a real pimp ur all fukin poser's n thinkin ur top well 4 a start no gagsta writes in a forman im outta here. "Yall" sad later "dogg"! lol fukin patheitic ↑ |
| Name: corinna | Date: Mar 16th, 2006 11:27 PM |
| hey never say you hate him becouse deepinside there is a feeling that u do love him. ↑ |
| Name: Soumya | Date: Mar 20th, 2006 10:37 AM |
| YOU SHOULD NOT WORRY ABOUT IT AS LIFE HAS TO BE KEPT GOING. BE COOL. AND TAKE UR STUDIES SERIOUSLY AS YOUR NEXT YEAR WILL BE VERY IMPORTANT.WE ARE ALSO FACING SOWHAT THE SAME KIND OF PROBLEM. ↑ |
| Name: To Megan | Date: Apr 3rd, 2006 3:05 AM |
| I feel very sorry for you kid and hope that your biological parents realize one day that they made your life a mess! It sounds to me that they are ALL very immature and dont deserve to have ANY children at all. Any mother that chooses to leave her child behind is a poor excuse of a parent and didnt deserve to have any more kids. I hope you can hang in there and NOT make the same mistakes they did with you when you have kids of your own someday. My advice to you is stay in school,go to college if you can,get a good education and then a good job and support your self and be happy!! Good luck with YOUR life kid. Your #1,always remember that. Try not to let others bring you down and keep your chin up!!! ↑ |
| Name: loil | Date: May 8th, 2006 10:17 PM |
| Name: Miledia | Date: May 8th, 2006 10:32 PM |
I am so sorry for you, i really think that it's hard for you but by reading the paragraph your father got divorce two times right?
what if the problem was not with the womans that your father get divorce with?,what if the problem was with your father in that case i can help you .
try to make your parents perfect to each other by making them do what the other perso like for exemple:
make your mother make your father's favorite food and ake your father be clean and smell good then you can put a special diner in the dining room only for your father and your mother so they may be happy then you can do some more things to make them really like each other.
wait does that makes sence?.
i wish that i have helped you. ↑ |
| Name: tiara | Date: Jul 3rd, 2006 4:02 AM |
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