I am 16 years old and I'm 8 and a half mothes pregnant . My belly is huge! I can barley walk and I cont do household things like clean up I live alone becuase the babys daddy left when I started to show big time. He thought the fact of my huge belly was gross. He refused to touch it even when the baby kicked. He one day said sex wasnt good becuase my fat ass belly was getting in the way.The day he left he saw me in the tub and the baby was moving around and my belly was shifting.I dont know what to do I have 3 weeks to go and I am getting bigger by the day!
PS. My parents kicked me out! ↓
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| Name: moshecathy | Date: Jul 20th, 2006 2:24 AM |
| Your parents probably kicked you out because they didnt want you hanging out with your bf and to teach you a big lesson. You may not know it now because your baby has not arrived yet but you will really need all the help you can get when you child arrives. It's time to call mom and dad and tell them how sorry you are and how you really need their help. When your baby comes, im sure proud grandma and granpa will love the baby just like they love you. ↑ |
| Name: erica | Date: Jul 20th, 2006 4:31 AM |
| I HAVE BEEN THERE DONE THAT. THE DAY HE WALKED OUT ON YOU HE DID YOU A FAVOR. YOU JUST DON'T KNOW IT YET. REMEMBER WHERE THERE IS A WILL THERE IS A WAY. FIND YOUR WAY. YOUR BABY NEEDS YOU ↑ |
| Name: gerdine | Date: Jul 25th, 2006 2:43 AM |
| I went through the same thing hang in there everything will be ok even if you have to do it your self as far as getting bigger its all belly a lot of guys will think being pregnant is sexy. I got hit on when i was in the same situatoin don"t be scared ↑ |
| Name: Alyssa | Date: Aug 2nd, 2006 2:02 AM |
| Hi Guliana. I had a similar situation minus the situation with the baby's father. I was 16 when i got pregnant wit my first baby (and this isnt coming from an old lady either, im only 18 and have 2 kids) but neways my mother tried her hardest to kick me out for the sake of her marriage with my step dad. She tried to convince me to get an abortion because that would fix everything. So in a sense i know where you're coming from. I feel horrible that a man would say those things to you. Bringing a child into the world is so beautiful and how anybody can find it "gross" is just disturbing. My advice to you is to keep your head up, dont let nebody ruin what should be that happiest 9 months of your life. Your baby is whats important and no matter what anybody else says they'll get over it. Give your parents some time...after they see the baby..they're grandchild their atitudes may change. But everybody else's opinions on what you've done is not important. Take care of yourself and you baby. I wish you the best of luck! If you need a friend keep writin...i'll be bak.... ↑ |
| Name: susan | Date: Aug 27th, 2006 3:46 AM |
| It is hard to be pregnant at such a young age. I am 17 and 33 weeks pregnant. Your boyfriend is an asshole. YOU DO NOT NEED THAT KIND OF TREATMENT. Your boyfriend is suppose to love your belly, its his child in there. My boyfriend thinks my belly is absolutly beautiful. He was the wrong guy for you... There are many other guys out there that will love you and your baby.and dont worry, your stomach will get smaller soon enough! Just put a smile on.....: ) ↑ |
| Name: Elizabeth | Date: Aug 28th, 2006 3:59 PM |
Guliana
I am so sorry to hear how you were being treated. I too was kicked out when i got pregnant. When the baby was born things changed. You dont need that boy around. Stay strong, look around in your community for a teen parenting group or something. There are schools were you can go where unmarried/teens are going. Just look around. Your belly will get smaller and once you hold your baby , you will forget all the pain you went through. ↑ |
| Name: Jenn | Date: Aug 28th, 2006 4:57 PM |
| hay just hang in there everything will eventually work out well i am 16 and i just found out that i am pregnant with an 18 year old guy and my parents hate him i am so scared that they will make me have an abortion or give it up for adoption i know the babys daddy will be there because we have been tryin to have a baby so but any ways back to you that baby will be comin out soon and things will get better ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Aug 28th, 2006 5:38 PM |
| Hang in there! It's almost over and then your belly will be much smaller again! As for the guy who left,he didn't deserve you in his life anyway so for now just enjoy life with your brand new baby and love from a new man will come probably when you least expect it! ↑ |
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| Name: Barbara | Date: Sep 18th, 2006 4:29 PM |
| hi I am 17 and pregnant and I am so sorry and I know how you feel it seems to me that your boyfriend is a ass to be honest and you can do so much better and I don`t think he will want to be in your life or your child`s life ↑ |
| Name: steve bolboa | Date: Jun 17th, 2007 8:31 PM |
| hello im steve bolboa i work as a moterbiker.do you want to chat ↑ |
| Name: Tammy | Date: Jun 26th, 2007 3:39 AM |
Hey Guliana, What I have just read makes me furious and sick. I would say good ridence to the boyfriend. He should not even matter at this point. He sounds like a selfish you know what. You are carrying a beautiful child within you. It is a shame that you were unable to enjoy your pregnancy due to an immature self centered boyfriend. Ok with that said you need to stand tall, brush yourself off and really look at what is going on here. This child was not asked to be brought into the world and deserves a good life with alot of Love. If you have family that you can contact or someone that you know is healthy and a safe environment to go until you have the baby then you need to go or have someone come and stay with you. You need to think of yourself and the baby right now. I would not give your boyfriend the time of day. He disgusts me. It is a shame that its the way it is. He is trying to turn something so amazing and beautiful as pregnancy into something that it is not. Do not let his negative comments affect you. Right now start over and let it go and concentrate on you and this beautiful baby you are carrying. Please promise me that you will stay away from the baby's dad. I would get legal advice and seek counseling immediately. If the cost is an issue there are so many services that will help you and the baby out. I am going to pray for you. I hope everything turns around for you and remember to Love yourself and your baby when it is born. That is so very important. Good Luck and be safe and smart.
A caring friend ↑ |
| Name: sophie | Date: Jul 3rd, 2007 7:18 AM |
| although you may not live with your parent they still will help u alot although u may not see it yet and when da babies born believe in ur self and guess what you will be fine ↑ |
| Name: rbazin7689 | Date: Jul 21st, 2007 3:54 AM |
| He sounds like a jerk. You will find someone who loves you. Please please right now you need to concentrate on yourself and your beautiful baby. Too bad he's such a dink he couldn't see the beauty of a belly swollen because of the promise of another life. Congratulations! You might feel alone but very very soon you won't be. Your parents might come around. Forgive yourself and think about the prospect of your being the best mother you can be. Try to relax a bit get lots of rest and think of a plan to execute over the coming months to better your situation. Do you have siblings, grandparents, friends who could help you? ↑ |
| Name: mary | Date: Oct 31st, 2007 3:48 PM |
| Name: cougarpride2007 | Date: Nov 1st, 2007 4:53 AM |
Well, sweetie if that is how he treated you, do you really want him back? You know, you deserve so much more and better!!!! Don't worry to much with trying to please everyone or win people's (including the BF's) approval, cause you will only find dissapointment in it if it doesn't turn out the way you want it to. Have you thought of getting involved with a church if you're not involved yet? Think about it, you might find some strong shoulders that you can lean on, and offer some help to you and your precious baby. As for your parents they will come around if they really love you...they might just be trying to help you learn a life lesson......if not and they just don't want anything to do with you or their grandbaby they will be the ones that lose out!!! Keep your chin up, know that someone is praying for you and the baby, and that God never puts more on your plate that he thinks you can handle......make good choices, ask questions until you get the answer you want that makes the best sense, and don't be afraid or ashamed to ask for help if you need it......talk to a friend, teacher, pastor, close relative (if you have any...Aunt, Uncle, Grandparent, Cousin, Sister, Brother)
Good Luck to you, and may the angles keep watch over you and your baby:) ↑ |
| Name: GDR | Date: Nov 11th, 2007 11:34 PM |
| First of all, you can't take anything this man says seriously. Clearly, he's not the one for you. Sometimes our parents let us stumble and fall- I think that you're parents wanted you to see things for how they are... not how you create nor fantasize them to be. My belief is that you lack self worth and that you have an opportunity to be an amazing mother of your child and an independent woman. You should embrace this as an experience to grow in a positive way and to one day help others who "walk in your shoes." I really wish you the best. One day when you realize how amazing you are things will make sense. ↑ |
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