I am recently divorced. My daughter was about a year and half at the time and i was expecting my second. My main concern is for my little girl. She is now almost 3 and she was very close to her dad. I have tried to keep him involved in her life, but he makes it really difficult. i have bent over backwards to accommodate him, but it seems that everything i do (which i do only for my daughter) is not enough. He refuses to pay maintenance and eventually i got so infuriated with his attitude that i told him to stay away from my daughter and if he wishes to see her, he can apply to do so through normal legal channels. i really want to avoid the whole legal battle, but at the same time, i feel that it is important for me to stand up to him. i dont know whether i am doing the right thing and would really appreciate feedback from other parents who have experienced similar problems. ↓
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