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I have been married for alittle over two years. I have one daughter from a previous marriage, my husband has three, which two of them live with us. They are 14 year old twins. I am having a hard time bonding with them. Actually it really is only one of them. He complains about everything. No matter what I do to please him, it never seems to be enough. It is getting to a point that it is interfering with my marriage because my husband and I are always fighting about him. He is disrespectful, he does not listen to anything. If I ask him to do something, he blows it off. But he wants me to do things for him. He always blames everyone else when he does something wrong, even me. He thinks none of the rules apply to him. We have been all living together and all three kids know the rules of our home and how things work. The other two, which is my husband's other son and my daughter know what is expected of them. I have tried talking to him, asking him what I can do to make things better. I feel that I go out of my way for him and I get no respect. My daughter has never once disrespected her step-dad ever. She always does what is told and never gives him a problem. I am to the point that I do not want to even talk to him and sometimes I wish their birth mother was normal and they lived with her. I sometimes feel like I do not want to be married anymore. I am having a very hard time with this and sometimes I don't feel the support I should be getting from my husband. If there is anyone that can offer advice I would appreciate it because I am at the end of my rope. ↓
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