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Me and My fiance are about to get married. He has two children from a previous relationship. I love them dearly and honestly i am raising them. The bio mom isnt involved much...well any who he and i are planning a child together, about a year after the wedding. Well he and i were going over baby names. He states to me that he wants our child to have a 6 letter name, end with an "an" and be a unisex name, just like his other 2 children. I told him i did not want to do that for several reasons. 1. being i dont want/or like many uni-sex names. 2) The names i love are far from 6 letters and 3) that is something he started with his ex. He then blows up at me and says "oh, i see how it is, you get to make all the decisions, your soooo selfish, blah blah. I explain to him, no i dont think im being selfish, but why cant i name MY child something that i love all because he started that with his ex. He then tells me, he started that. Im like well if you didnt have children prior, i could name my child something else? I have to based my kids name off something he decided when he had his 2nd child with someone else??? I really dont think i am being mean, but i just feel like being orginal ya know...like why should i follow in the foot steps of someone else? .......So am I over reacting? am i being selfish? ↓
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