So, as the other stories go, my b/f's ex wife divorced him.. She decided she wanted him back a year later and when he was now in love with me and we were in a serious relationship.
Fast forward... He has rejected her many attempts asking to reconcile and now she is taking him to co0urt to change majority custody. They have share 50/50 physical custody for over 9 months
She has done everything in her power to get him back and now she is realizing it will never happen, so she is now going to try and send him to the food stamp office by taking him back to court and getting their original judgment set aside, get spousal support, more child support and change majority custody.
Her reason? Well, we all know it is because he won't take her back and pay her bills, so now she figures she will get the courts to make him pay her so she doesn't have to work.
So, her reason is "You don't have the children's best interest in mind"... She has had him followed, found out exactly who I was, dug up dirt from over 10 years on me from when I was in an abusive relationship and now she is trying to use misdemeanor charges that were considered to be like bar fight and is trying to use my past to take his kids, break us up and keep him away from me.
This woman scares me. She has sent hostile e mails letting me know she would be in his life FOREVER, then when all her attempts to reconcile didn't work, she is now dragging my past up. It has been very emotionally hard to have to talk about all the abuse that I was in with my b/f that resulted in me having 2 misdemeanor assault charges back in my 20's. I am now almost 40!!!!! With no run ins with the law since I got rid of that abusive man that was in my past and this woman is making me relive this hell all over again and trying to break us up.
I am in California and don't know how the courts look at a situation with custody.
She tells him that she can get $5,ooo a month if she has majority custody, spousal support and child support.
She is a gold digger that refuses to get a job and support herself and expects her ex husband to support her. while of course her biggest saying is "It's about the kids.. and their best interest"
Oh, btw, she divorced her husband for another man, a man that is a confessed sex addict, but this was going to be ok for her kids to have this man in her kids life. When this relationship ended, she tried crawling back to her ex husband thinking he would always want her back. Now that he doesn't, she is out to make his life hell.
Any advice? This all has been pure hell and we need some answers.
Thanks! ↓
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