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Name: soontobewife

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My Fiance and I have been together for 3 years, we are expecting our first child in about 5 weeks . He has a child with his ex . ( The mother is very young and immature) They never really had a real realtionship. She always used there daughter to manipulate him. If he wanted to see the little girl he had to spend time with the mom. We have been going through a horrible custody battle and she has been making things so difficult. She puts restraining orders against him and then does not allow him to see the little girl and has now started saying such hurtful things to there daughter about our new baby, That the baby is not her brother because he is the devil and god does not love us. She has told all involved that she wants a realtionship with him still. I try to stay out of it and respect her as I would expect to be treated by a woman interacting with my children but she continues to make my life and his life miserable. It is affecting our relationship now. I need to know what to do. She is making me crazy. ↓

Name: og217 | Date: Mar 21st, 2008 12:35 PM

Your fiance needs to marry you and concentrate on you and your child. Obviously this woman needs a couple of years of no contact to cool off. No contact at all seems best. ↑

Name: soontobewife | Date: Mar 22nd, 2008 10:28 PM

Thanks !however..he does need to focus on all of his children. His daughter did not pick her parents. I think that both of them need to grow up. I think I need to continue focusing on my children and my life. She is going to be miserable regardless. I just am going to chose not to give her misery company. ↑