Hey Jovan, Don't think too much, I will like to help you, i've encountered this kind of problem with one of the orphan that i have in my Orphanage. Please fill free to contact me for any help even financially.
Mary Jettson
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I am a mother of two. A nineteen yr.old and a 16 yr. old. I am divorced from their father. I would like to chat with you about how you are coping and what kind of coping skills you have. ↑ |
i dont have a coping skill. im just depressed everyday and i do everything i can to get out the house because its painful memories. and u know what makes it worse? im pregnant. all i need is advice. i dont need none of u goin off on me and tellin me that i ruined my life. it'll bring me down more. sometimes i think death would be easier. ↑ |
Well,there isn't much you can do if your parents marriage is over. Don't put the responsibility of it on your shoulders though because it isn't your fault. Time will heal your wounds. As far as a job goes,you are very young and I'm sure will be easily able to find another when you are ready.I'm sorry you are sad right now but in time things will get better. ↑ |
yea i know what ur feelin bro! i am 14 and the same thing is happening with me. when it appened to me i just told my self that it wont change back. but i cant think of anything right now i will try to find more ways so hang in there bro!
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it is really tough to go through. But you have to look at it as if they are fighting alot and really stressed out all the time, it may be for the best that they do go their seperate ways. I know my family is alot calmer now that the dad is out. There was fighting constant and everyone was stressed and no one though anyone loved anyone. The best thing is to let your parents know that you do not want to be the in between. they should keep all there anger towards each other between them and not get you involved. You should see if they would go to a class for divorced parents and kids in the middle. This helped us and the kids in my family are more able to see each parent and not be scared that one would say bad stuff about the other. ↑ |
Dont let it worry you. I went through it to only i was about 12 years old when it was really hard i was hitting my teens and everything was hitting me at once. Just know that its not your fault. look at it this way.....You get to have 2 christmas's.... ↑ |
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