I met my husband 4 years ago and married 1 year ago. He has two boys and I have one girl. The kids love each other , !! and I adore/love my husband. When I first met my hubby his relationship with his ex was civil. I also have a CIVIL relationship with my ex. It seemed that as soon as she found out about me she suddenly wanted to become good friends with him. It didn't bother me much. Then I heard she was moving to our town (about 3 miles from us) which I thought was a good idea for the children. Well then I heard she had gotten a job in the same place that both my husband and I work. It was difficult but accepted it and coped with it very well. Well now she is moving a mile closer to our home!!!! I feel invaded. She is also calling and texting my husband more and more for simple little things like "our son has a fever what should i do" seriously!!! I am not a selfish person and i love his boys. I cook for them I always make sure their rooms are nice and clean when they come home. (We have joint custody) I am having a difficult time with her calling and texting him all the time. Don't get me wrong I understand that they must communicate because of the kids but is this normal? She acts as if he is her best-friend. If he walks by her at work and doesn't say hi or smiles she immediately starts calling him or texting him asking if he is mad at her!!! is this normal. Please help Am i being selfish....I dont know what to do. ↓
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