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Name: AnN
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I am so confused about what to do right now. I am 6 months pregnant. I found out today that my husband has created a single profile online and has been chatting to girls online. He has been have sexual conversations with these women. I confronted him about it and at first he denied it and then he said it was nothing and it was only something he just started. He even turned it around on me and said that our marriage was in a bad place and lately i have been putting him down and his feelings were hurt and he just needed a fantasy to escape. I will admit the last couple months have been rough and but i never thought he would do something like this. The thing is I told him we could move on and i forgave him, i just needed more attention from him. Tonight it is the same thing from him. I think he is not remorseful at all and he just figured i would forgive him and move on continuing to be self involved. I never wanted to be divorced and I never wanted my baby to go through something like this, but i feel like i just can't be in such an unhealthy marriage. We don't have much money and i don't know how to financially go though with a divorce. I feel so stuck and helpless...should i stick it out leave him now before its too late?
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Name: Gabbys Mom | Date: Sep 18th, 2011 12:25 AM
I am also considering divorce. We have been married for 24 yrs. we have a severly autistic daughter whos 16 & our son just started college. I have stayed with him when he cheated. was abusing his medicine. was an alcoholc. He's been sober for 4 months. Yet he thinks I shouldn't be upset when he comes home from work 2 hours late or when I catch him in lies. He doesn't show me or our children compasssion or respect. I believe people say " till death do you part" but really mean "until things get too hard". But I am really considering divorce right now too. My husband loves to TRY to turn it around on me too. I don't let him anymore. I may not be the best person for advice on this but don't stay for your baby. You need to do what's best for you and that will be what's best for your baby too. If you think hes gonna continue with his bad behavior then don't stay. That's what I have done and now i"m 42 and wish I would have left when the kids were toddlers. Good luck sweetie. I hope you the best 

Name: ailinchen | Date: Oct 8th, 2011 4:22 AM
First, let me just say that I consider any type of intimacy (physical or not) with someone other than your wife is cheating. He is not worth your time. You and your baby deserve better. The financial situation is tricky, but it's just going to get worse when the baby comes. 

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