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Name: pj754
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This guy is a real jerk. My gosh!! I never thought he could be so jealous of me. All he does is bash me and my fiance to our children. My oldest has decided to live with his dad because he wants an easy way out from school work and rules. The jerk thinks he's helping him by letting him live with him but he's only going to hurt him in the long run. The jerk has influence my oldest so bad that he thinks by living with his dad he will have easy street in the way of life. Bottom line, the jerk just doesn't want to help support our children financially. Partly because he is a lousy carpenter and can't get a job anywhere. Well, if he was any good, he shouldn't have any problems finding a job. The jerk keep trying to buy the kids with material things so that they would make the decision to live with him. He had them for visitation the past two whole weeks, and the two youngest children cried that they wanted to come home. I am trying so hard to give them a happy, structured home life but this jerk keeps trying to screw it up. He claims he is looking at their best interest. Yeah right? All he is trying to do is use them to put digs into me. He parades around like he is Mr. Wonderful thinking he is financially stable, when I know better. That's part of the reason why I left him. He spends money like it's water, even though he doesn't have it to spend and then blamed me for it. He like to make me think I'm dumber than a box of rocks. He's bad mouthed me to my parents, who believe in all his BS. Yet, the minute he walks away from him, they talk about him behind their backs. I don't speak with my parents because they are alcoholics and narrow minded people, which I would perfer our children not to be around. I'm happy with my fiance and haven't felt this happy for a long time. Yet, I can't control what my ex does during his visitation and the justice system doesn't work fast enough to help to correct this bad sitiuation. My heart bleeds for these children. I try hard to keep positive wits about myself but somedays it wears on my nerves. I'm trying to be a good, caring, loving mommy but the jerk is not making things easy. I hate going to court but I am doing it for their sakes. Hoping one day the court will realize how irresponsible this jerk is and lessen his visitation with them. Does anyone have suggestions about this wonderful legal system of ours?
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