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Name: Shelia
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I am married to a wonderful man who I love and respect. However, some of his kids don't respect me or his parents for that matter. He will pitch a wild-eyed fit to get his way and I can't stand by letting him ruin my home any more what can I do to get the problems he creates under control.

And we have a lot of problems with my step kids lying and making false allegations against my kids their step siblings who are not allowed in my home at all when the step kids are here.
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Name: beatrice | Date: Oct 20th, 2005 5:08 PM
help my kids are crazy 

Name: Shelia | Date: Oct 28th, 2005 12:21 PM
Beatrice, Tell you what you can come to my home when his kids are here and see just what kind of hell it is. The 10 yr old is going on 11 yrs old and he has no respect for anyone. He will throw a wild-eye tantrum to get his way all the time. 

Name: adewale | Date: Nov 6th, 2005 5:36 PM
what did u want me to do ? 

Name: AuntGlenda | Date: Dec 12th, 2005 3:41 AM
Need Nanny 911 help for 6 year old! 

Name: DOnna | Date: Dec 17th, 2005 6:09 AM
I have a Question! does the size of you living room cause more fights 

Name: Andriella | Date: Jan 30th, 2006 9:32 PM
Tell the people you love the most, what you think, and what others say. 


Name: John Smith Jacob | Date: May 20th, 2006 11:52 AM
Hi
My name is John Smith, i am 32 years old.I have two kids both boys their names are Smith and Jason. My wife is planning to get a divorce because of the kids. Smith is 8 months and Jason is 15 years old. I really need your help Nanny Stella.e-mail me the answer on [email protected] okay.
from:Sir John Smith 

Name: Serina to Sheila | Date: May 20th, 2006 2:57 PM
Do they get punished at all? What is theire recourse for these actions...Do they get what they want??? Have You seen Nanny 911 or Supper Nanny?
Do not allow the behavior.1st sit down with them tell them what you expect and what the consiquences are write it down for all to see. ..by the way this if for all the kids in the home so get the whole family together for the list making. If.... ( When) bad behavior occures in a firm vioce( not yelling) tell them what you want them to do If by 2nd time they do not comply the go in the nauty chair or room. Make it a room or spot that will do the leat damage alos NOT the bed rooms they will just play. The Nanny say one min. for each year the child is ie. 10yrs old 10 min..I think thatis too long for a 10yrs old.. I think 5 min is ok. You will have to keep checking on them and make sure they stay in the :nauty place.This is MOST IMPORTANT both parents have to be in on this.The rules can not very form kid to kidesp. for Blended families.
I alos think that you should get every one together and tell them how much you all love them and that the rules are made so we all can have a happy life together,
I have 2 step kids14 son Bipolar ( talk about rage...) and 12 yr daughter. We have diffrent rules in this house then they do at the Mothers like hang your coat up when you come in and brush you teeth every night & no swearing...AT all.
Trust me I know what out of controll is.I have been knocked down ..Yelled I hate you !#^^$(& at , bronken my great grand mothers plates, and more.Everything is so much better now that we have set rules.I tell them I love them no matter what but and I want to be their friend and You are not replacing their mother. Your Husband should say that same the he just want s to be part of there lives & is replacing there father.
I do not like the behavior when they act up.Yes things do happen because they keep testing the limits.Like my step Daughter wearing a skirt so shot when she sit you can see her butt. She cannot wear things like that in this house so she actually asked me to fix ( she is a sweety) it. I added 5 inches to the bottom of it and she loves it. So does the ex ( What a surprise!)
I have also read Dr Phils Family .First. This is time consuming because you have use the a work book (Do not get the DVD you will have to print out a ton of stuff Book Nanny (11 is good too But I like Dr Phil Better.
Also we do not have soda (8 spoonfulls of sugar) or sweets in this house except for special events.Believe me this has helpped too.Esp with the Step son.The main thing I have learned is that the kids need limits.
I hope I have helped some.
May God Grant you Patiens and PEACE. 

Name: S | Date: May 23rd, 2006 7:07 PM
SO How are things Now??? 

Name: n.n. | Date: May 24th, 2006 1:12 AM
never have both sets of kids together at the same time. If the nonsense keeps up,theres always divorce court! 

Name: chloe | Date: Jun 11th, 2006 3:03 PM
I have a problem. I have 4 girls. kayleigh (15), Jenna (14), Megan (11) and Kaitlin (6). I have spanked them since they were 2 and i have now stopped spanking Kayleigh and Jenna but i still spank megan and Kaitlin. Kayleigh and Jenna have now started swearing at me which they never used to do when they got spanked. They swear at me 24/7 and i have tried taking away privilages but they climb out their bedroom window! HELP PLEASE!!! 

Name: carla | Date: Jun 21st, 2006 9:41 PM
well one thing you can do is talk to your husbad and step kids and work out the problems also if you need to bafore you have anyone come over make sure you know who it is and make sure there parents know who you are take my advice my 11yr old told me me she was inviteing some of her guy friends over she did i said yes and they all ended up being jelous of the other becaus my daughter was talking to another turns out they all liked her



hope my advice willl help
carla 

Name: Danan | Date: Jun 26th, 2006 9:23 PM
put cameras up where they cant seel them and only u and her knows about it and tape what they are doing and when they get to the point that the police are call show them the tape tp back up your point and this why your kids will not try to be an ass We did this wrok out great for us 

Name: chrystall bal | Date: Jul 11th, 2006 4:55 AM
help i need some help with my 6 year old daughter she is so bad i can't even stand outside with her and now my 2 year old is starting to act like her help please i need help 

Name: to shelia | Date: Jul 16th, 2006 9:52 PM
try a trip across your knees, i know that works my parente spank me evan tho im 19 the worse thing i can do is tell a lie for telling a lie dad has a razor strop he use on my bare tookies in case you don't know what a tookies id its my ass OUCH 

Name: M H | Date: Aug 29th, 2006 8:38 PM
hi 

Name: Susie | Date: Sep 4th, 2006 9:01 PM
I am a grandmother raising a 21 month old. What is the best way to get them to listen She doesnt take no for an answer It does not matter how many times we go thru the same thing she doesnt mind 

Name: Theresa | Date: Sep 6th, 2006 7:55 PM
I have a daughter that doesnt listen to what I say. Shes four years old, and doesnt have a father to help out. Regardless the disciplin I use she laughs at me . Someone help I ran out of opptions and dont know what to do or who to ask. 

Name: Patience | Date: Sep 10th, 2006 7:55 PM
I have two kids. One is 2 and half and the other is 9 months old. I am a saty at home mother, and my husnband works 8-12 hours a day. Hw willnot let me leave the apt b/c he is way to tired to saty with the girls when i am out for two or three hours once or twice a week. He tells me that it not his place to be babysitting his own girls. I am stuck with the 24/7 and I need a break. I have no idea how to get creative with them and to beable to have fun with them because of there ages. What can I do? Help. Also my oldest daughter is very rude to her sister. She hits her, pushes her, tries to bit her and hits her with her dolls. Help? 

Name: Erika Martindale | Date: Sep 16th, 2006 1:09 AM
my name is Erika. I have a bit of a problem. This problem however, is not for a child, it is, believe it or not, for a parent. I no longer live with my step mother, but she needs some help with being a parent. All she does is play video games all day after work and does not discipline her children. All she does is scream and yell. Nanny 911 I need you to help this woman out. her kids are going to have horrible lives and even though her kids are soon no longer going to really be my step sister and step brother, they will always be my brother and sister in my heart and I wil never let a bad mother raise them. She should not be a parent she needs serious help. please contact me at [email protected] Please tell me you can help her. Thank you so much, I really would appreciate it. 

Name: Erika Martindale | Date: Sep 16th, 2006 1:12 AM
I just needed to add this........... Nanny Stella I have seen so much improvement for the familieis that you help, please help mine.
Thank you 

Name: Jan | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 9:40 PM
Hi. I have been a Nanny for many years and love it. Have worked with many great families but I have seen alot of what you are talking about! Your husband needs to be in on this big time....you are taking on far too much, yourself. This is a partnership and I see you as really suffering due to lack of support. 

Name: Julie | Date: Jul 9th, 2007 10:11 PM
My friend needs help,her name is Sheralyn and she lives in Colorado Springs,CO. Her kids run her house!! I know my friend and shes about to pull her hair out..... 

Name: Melissa | Date: Aug 7th, 2007 6:28 PM
My kids are out of control. There dad got arrested, so now I'm a full time working mom that has 2 outta control boys. When I get home from work, they won't listen to me. They yell & scream & throw things. Talk terrible to me. I'm at my wits end. I'm about ready to give up!! 

Name: A dad | Date: Aug 8th, 2007 11:55 AM
Have you people a back bone who is the parent and who is the child, I have 3 children 10 13 16 they are great kids but when thry misbehave I punish them, I take away something they like or ground them or even spank them, we get along great because they knoe in the father and they are the children, my 16yr old got spanked saturday night for comming home past her curfew for the third time. 

Name: Beth | Date: Aug 23rd, 2007 2:44 AM
Please Help! One of my best friends family is going crazy! I can't even go to her house because my parents think they are all irresponsible. The children don't know how to behave. They have 6 kids and live in a townhouse. There is a total of 3 bedrooms. The first time I walked into my friend's room I couldn't even see the floor, no joke! Please help them trust me they need it! 

Name: Marco | Date: Aug 29th, 2007 12:44 PM
I need help! My wife and I have no idea what to do and she is at her wit's end. Im in the military and stationed in Korea for a year. My wife has both our children with her in Texas. Over the passed few months, my oldest boy has developed a distasteful attitude towards his mother. He yells at her when she tells him what to do, he disrespects her, and cries about having to do things. He's never been like this. She called me crying and told me he would not eat in the morning before school (which he must do because he takes a medication that makes him sick if he doesnt). She saw him put a school folder in his back pack that she had asked about the night before. He hid homework from her so she wouldnt make him do it.... She says she feels like he runs her life and has no time for my youngest son. I cant help her. I dont know what to do.... PLEASE HELP.... 

Name: kenny | Date: Sep 5th, 2007 2:51 AM
i have a 3.5 year old girl who is very difficult. She poops in her pants for attention, she does not listen, she sleeps with a diaper, she sleeps with a passie still, but most of all she does not listen what should i do? 

Name: Courtney | Date: Oct 11th, 2007 11:16 PM
ok 

Name: Bindia | Date: Oct 29th, 2007 9:47 PM
Students are acting out and need time out. How do I go about doing this? 

Name: Patricia | Date: Nov 6th, 2007 2:23 PM
My child is acting like one f-n bitch, 

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