Hi, I wonder if anyone can help me what to do. I have been with my wife for 7 years, been married for 3 of them. We have a 9 month old son. My wife suffers from bipolar depression she has had one bout of depression whilst i have been with her that kept her sidelined for 6 months but we got through it.
Now she is very depressed again which we knew was happening, however last saturday everything was fine in our relationship no problems, yes we have had previous issues but nothing to upset us more than at that time. On the sunday of last week she had her younger sister around (not my biggest fan) and when i come home from work suddenly my wife is a totally different person its like i don't even exist. When i question her what is wrong she says she doesn't love me anymore and she doesn't think it will work long term. Then i hear about her family telling her its my fault she is depressed and her elder sister (a real b#tch who likes me even less and is always trying to break us up) has been telling her that she would be better off without me even though to my knowledge i haven't even done anything.
This has basically torn my world apart, i can't eat or sleep just thinking about it. Everytime i touched her or got close she would say i was smothering her or made an excuse for me or her to go and do something. Towards the end of the week she started saying lets make this work, building my hopes up then later that same day saying its not going to work or I need space. This went on the same cylce until yesterday whereas she started holding my hand and wanting to be close then today she text me to say she is staying at her elder sisters for a couple of days until the weekend.
At the moment for me it is like being on an emotional rollercoaster not knowing where i stand from one minute to the next.
Do you think i should just cut all ties and just get divorced, it just seems like too much and i don't think i have the strength to go through a divorce process but i don't want to be used as an emotional doormat either.
Thanks in advance for your responses. ↓
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