My Ex's new gf is being tricksy. I have no idea what to do. I've tried being kind, being considerate and understanding, I've tried ignoring her but she is completely over stepping her boundaries.
Ex used to call our son on a Wed night (midweek blues without daddy) and just say goodnight to him, then he would quickly ask if there were any probs - honestly it was a really quick call but his new GF says its inapropriate and insensitive for him to still call and do that.
Ex used to come to school plays and parents evening to see our son but new gf says that isnt right now as she has a daughter from a previous relationship and Ex should be going to see the GF's daughter at school instead.
Ex had son to stay two nights a week every week, it was solid and stable and our son knew exactly where he was with that but GF says its too expensive for them so they cut it down to one night most weeks and some weeks not at all.
If the new GFs kid has a birthday party that day or any other engagement, then Ex must cancel on our son.
He hasn't paid maintenance in five years.
Now she says Ex can't take our son to church because he has to take her daughter to church but Ex wanted to be a sponsor for our son's confirmation.
The new GF says he has a "new family now" but how do i make our son feel like he is still a part of that family?
I'm lost. ↓
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