Does your husband come back home to see you and the kids once a month? A long distance is tough on anyone's relationship. If you are willing to work things out then move out there with him or at least, go out and visit for two or so weeks during the summer before school starts. See how things go while you are there. Why is he talking to another woman? Does he go to her home or does she come to his? Just because he's feeling alone doesn't mean he has to right to seek comfort in another female. I would be very skeptical about that. Think about the times you had together before he left. Was your relationship reallly good or was it sort of rocky? You might want to ask yourself those things before you decide to move out there. If you know in your heart things will work out, then go for it. I'm surprise you have lasted this long in a distance relationship. ↑ |
I'm glad I'm not in your shoes but if I were,I'd let him go.It kind of sounds like it's all over but the divorce anyway. ↑ |
He did ask you to move out there so it doesnt sound over to me. try and work it out for the kids. ↑ |
He is able to come home for about 3-4 days a month, so that is the only thing that has kept this situation going on for as long as it has we have just came to a point where it has to end. Our marriage was going through a very rocky time for about 6 months before he left. That is why he took the job out there our intentions were we would just get caught back up on our bills, which we have, and then he would be back. My problem is we own a home here which I love, but he does not want to sell it he just wants to rent it out to a friend which I am sure would be a whole other problem. But that is why I am afraid to go out there, he is already seeking another women which he says he has done nothing with they are just friends. I just don't think it will ever get back to the way it was and I hate to move to another state and him say he wants a divorce and me to be stuck out there. I just feel so bad for the kids they want their daddy so bad. Thanks for the suggestions. ↑ |
am sorry for what has happen in you´r life tell me all about it and do not ly to me ↑ |
I would not give him up just because he acted stupid one time. A marriage cannot survive with both of you living separate lives. You said that you want to be a family again so get down there and give it a chance or you will always wonder, what if. I would not let him go. ↑ |
You can always move back home, if something does happen. ↑ |