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We have been married for almost 8 yrs. I had a daughter previous to our marriage. She was born very ill. she has had 14 heart surgeries and last feb she had a stroke during surgery. I did not want another child when my wife and I got married and neither did she at the time but 3 1/2 yrs later we built a house. when the house was done she said she wanted a baby. since she was such a great step mom i finally agreed that she should have her own child.. After he was born she changed drasticly. She was not able to give me an open mouth kiss anymore. It has been 4 1/2 yrs since she has been able to do this. We used to have an incredible sex life but that went also.. She does not know why she cannot kiss me and has been unwilling to see anyone about it. i see a phycologist 1 every 2 weeks since my daughtes stroke but she is unwilling to see a marriage councilor or a phycologist for her self. i have told her that our marriage is slipping thru her fingers but she does not seem to care. I love her very much but i am not willing to go thru the rest of my life being married to a women that cannot even kiss me let alone anything else.. How long should i wait to see if she can kiss me again? its been 4 1/2 yrs how long is long enough. I am tired of being misserable. Where do i go from here? Feeling unloved and unwanted by my wife.. ↓
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