| Name: mfh | Date: Apr 27th, 2011 3:41 AM |
| Name: Daniel | Date: May 14th, 2011 5:04 PM |
| Would like a lady to talk about divorce/leaving...I want a lady's point of view on why my wife would leave ↑ |
| Name: mtgirl | Date: May 15th, 2011 5:49 PM |
| I have been married for almost 14 years. 9 years ago I found out he was having an affair. He begged and pleaded for me not to leave and promised he would change. For the most part he changed, but so have I. I have tried really hard to make it work, but I am just not feeling it. I think about his affair like it was yesterday. We have tried counselling but that hasn't helped. There is a lot more to this story but it would take up too much space to type it all, so all I have to say is that I really want to leave. We have two children, and I really feel now that it would be best for them not to live in an unhappy home. My husband does not want to separate/divorce and I am not financially capable to live on my own with my children. I work, but the pay isn't great. Does anyone out there haev any adbice? ↑ |
| Name: Ctg | Date: May 20th, 2011 7:42 PM |
| I totally understand how hard that is. I myself am in my 2nd marriage. My first on was mentally abusive and I had a 1 year old when I left. It was very ugly and to this day, my son suffers from the headgames. I really don't beleive that a divorce is ever amicable, especially when kids are involved. Of course, on the flip side,what are they learning at home, the are seeing fighting and will grow up to think its okay. Of course, I can't talk there either because my 2nd marriage has now turned mentally abusive as well and I am always at fault no matter what, I married a Mama's boy and he has never been able to leave her side so our life is never 100% happy - actually more sad & depressed these days. I do beleive that if you do mae the choice to leave and fin happiness, your kids will see it. ↑ |
| Name: Ginger | Date: Jun 14th, 2011 6:16 AM |
| I wanted out of my marriage in the first years, but didn't want my daughter to be a half-or-step-sister. I didn't think it would be fair to send her off on her own with a man I didn't even want to be with myself. It took me 5 years to have her sibling....then I stayed to do the "right thing" for my daughters....and 20 years into marrieage, I wake up every day wishing I oculd be in a relationship that made me happy....or one in which I could make someone else happy. Don't waste your life!! ↑ |
| Name: steve75 | Date: Sep 4th, 2011 10:13 PM |
| don't do it until you are 100 percent absolutely beyond the shadow of a doubt sure.....i regret leaving my wife every day of my life....my son splits time between us.....i know it hurts him....and looking back, the grass was not greener.....i'd try anything and everything before divorcing....and then trying again, and again to be sure ↑ |
| Name: yozaf87 | Date: Nov 19th, 2011 8:29 PM |
| Name: Broken angel | Date: Oct 12th, 2012 6:15 AM |
| I have been married for 21 years now, I got married very young. I was 17 yrs old and my husband was 24. Did I think we would last this long? Yes, I new we were a good match. We have three kids, our oldest is21, second oldest is 19, and the youngest is 12. Beautiful respectful kids. Over the past few years me and my husband have grown greatly apart, we no longer sleep in the same room, we have our own bank accounts and every word that comes out of his mouth is a lie, I know he's not cheating, because he doesn't have the time or the availability to do that. He works with my dad and is home at the same time my dad gets home, wich is 20 minutes after 5. And is home the rest of the time. So I just don't know what's up with him and I'm sure he is thinking the same about me. So I have been thinking about getting my own place with my daughter and my youngest son. I have so much confusion right now that my head is spinning. Did I put in to much to this marriage to throw in the towel now? ↑ |
| Name: Kim | Date: Dec 18th, 2013 6:55 AM |
| My Husband doesn't love me anymore because we have a baby on the way and we arguing constantly. ↑ |
| Name: Single Mom to be | Date: Dec 18th, 2013 6:57 AM |
| I have been divorce for 3 weeks already and now I am 7 months pregnant with my first baby how do I deal with this? ↑ |
| Name: Ace Fergerson | Date: Jan 22nd, 2014 4:32 PM |
| Name: married-and-lonely | Date: Feb 17th, 2014 2:34 AM |
| Should I consider divorce after 30 years of marriage? I feel like she doesn't care about me or is incapable of showing love. I have stayed married mostly out of a feeling of duty. No cheating or abuse on either part, but no passion or even strong friendship either - ever since I can remember. We have separate bedrooms - her choice. She says I snore so I had surgery! but the sleeping arrangements haven't changed. We don't like the same food, or the same activities, we barely talk. We share the same address is the only thing in common it seems. Would this be an opportunity for both of us to find something more fulfilling even at 55? Or am I going to be ruined financially, socially, and emotionally with such a leap? ↑ |
| Name: Glossing | Date: May 9th, 2014 5:29 AM |
| My advise is get out before you loose 10years. You will be a better role model for your kids if you are happy. ↑ |
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