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Name: skyjen

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I've been married over 4 years, and have two children, 3 years and 11/2 years old. My husband says I've changed and he isn't happy with the new me. I work full-time, come home spend most of my time with my kids, and the house. We don't talk or do things together anymore - too tired!!! We don't have family to babysit evenings and have very little money to pay for more babysitting. He has talked about divorce - because he too has changed and can't do the things he'd like to do!!! How do I fix this??? ↓

Name: Tee | Date: Mar 21st, 2006 1:49 AM

I know what you mean. I'm not sure how to change it myself. My hubby left tonight to go get a beer because i'm sick and he had to watch the baby tonight. He said me and Bree where nagging him to much( she is only 4 months old). I'm to the point that he can do what ever he wants and i will raise my daughter on my own ↑

Name: sonia | Date: Mar 21st, 2006 1:55 AM

you both need to make an effort to spend alone time with your spouse it is so important I don't spend enough time with my husband either but I need to try. ↑

Name: iwillsurvive | Date: Apr 7th, 2006 1:34 AM

I know exactly where you are at but a month later my husband threw his hands up and told me he wanted a divorce. Sit and talk with him now....communicate, work out a compromise. Share your feelings with him! Good luck! ↑

Name: Lee | Date: Apr 8th, 2006 7:07 PM

I can really relate to you cause i am in the middle of a separation for that same reason Lee ↑

Name: April | Date: Apr 9th, 2006 1:26 AM

You have to find out the reason why he want do get divorce. Are there any other things that you do not know? ↑

Name: rhonda | Date: Apr 18th, 2006 5:22 AM

my new hubby does not understand the gay part ↑

Name: rhonda | Date: Apr 18th, 2006 5:23 AM

he still is my son ↑

Name: finly | Date: Apr 19th, 2006 6:41 PM

get on with your'e life woman dump him!! ↑