| Name: bluetruck | Date: Jan 12th, 2011 6:20 PM |
to scub21 my wife help me with this
I can see both sides to this. I am in the same boat as you except that I have the baggage and my new husband is feeling left out. It took me a bit of time to see that I was leaving him out of the loop and that he wanted to be including in the family also. I still have a little trouble remembering to tell him things that happen sometimes but I think I am getting better. On the other hand I can see your BF's side. This is his son and his son's mom. They have history together and they are used to taking care of their son together. Just because they did not work out doesnt mean that the family does not do things together anymore. They work together for the sake of the son. And yes he will get defensive because... 10:14 AM
he feels that you are not trusting him. I'm not sure how you talk to him about it and what kind of language you use, but sometimes we accuse without knowing it. I do it all the time...lol. When you talk to him just simply ask that he include you because you feel like you are not part of the family and you want to be part of your BF's son's life. Make sure you say "you feel". Let him know that you love him and his son and you just want to be included. Don't get upset when things happen. When you find out that something is going on with the ex simply ask if you can go along. And be patient. Sometimes it takes time to make changes from old habits. Trust me I know. Its been 2 yrs and I'm still learning. Good luck ↑ |
| Name: bluetruck | Date: Jan 12th, 2011 6:32 PM |
to stacey
the mean ex is a little more difficult to deal with. The only thing I can suggest on that is him/her with kindness...lol. Believe it or not if you are kind long enough and I'm talking sincerely kind, they will soften to you. Start with telling stories that their kids do so they don't feel like they are missing out on anything. A lot of times that's why they are mean, because they feel like they should be seeing all this stuff not you. My son keeps his dads seperated by calling his bio father Daddy Daddy to enfisize that he is the real dad and he calls his stepdad Daddy. You may want to try something like that if she still has a problem with the kids calling you mom. ↑ |
| Name: Lorrie | Date: Mar 12th, 2011 2:50 AM |
| I read your situation and have to say I commend you for not being selfish. I wish I were in that case. I met my husband 5 years ago, now married since June 2010 and his ex wife cannot seem to understand that my husband now has other responsibilities, like me and my daughter. Ever since I've known him he has always told me he wants to keep peace with his ex, which I understand. She is very self centered and everything is all about her. Not even the kids. So whenever she needs something; for example, this weekend was our weekend with his daughter who is 8 years old and I had already made plans to go to 2 birthday party's. She calls one day before and tells my husband she wants to trade weekends. He says yes without speaking to me and then he wonders why I am upset. I feel he should have had the courtesy to let me know when she called to include me in the change of plans. I always include him in all my decisions regarding my children, however, he doesn't. So of course he is not speaking to me because he says I attack him, not physically, but I get upset. He says he is in the middle of it all. Well he is, he is now married and I am part of his life. All I want is for him to include me when a situation comes up just like this one, include me from the beginning, not after he says "yes" to her. For all those who know me, I am not selfish, or self centered. I go out of my way to all. Sometimes too much. I feel all alone and I don't know how to handle it.. I hate bothering my friends and family and feel embarrased because everyone thinks we have a "perfect" relationship. Thanks for letting me vent. ↑ |
| Name: mary | Date: Mar 28th, 2011 4:16 PM |
| my husband told me in a fight that the ex was the one for him and he lost her. What will be your reaction to this ↑ |
| Name: j222 | Date: May 4th, 2011 1:30 PM |
I need some help on guidance from people who have experienced this...
My boyfriends has two children with his ex-wife. The divorce was pretty simple and things with this kids have been simple. Nothing is in paperwork with the kids. The children live with their mother in a state approx 4 hours away. The mother moved due to her work. Boyfriend pays more in child support then what is actually required, made schedule to see children everyother weekend, involved with teachers and daycare. Phone calls children everyother day. Tries his best to be involved.
We are just starting to get over the hump of him "avoiding conflict" with the ex because he does not want to deal with her.
The problem is that she is highly invovled with his family. She sees his parents probably 4 times a week and his grandparents a little less. They have dinner, go places, sleep over eachothers places...His family states they are only involved with her to see the grandkids. Will this eventually go away? I guess it could be jealously on my part but it just bothers him and I that she is so invovled. It is great that the relationship is still there and his parents help her a lot w child transportation to school....often on the weekends that they aren't with him they are with grandparents. It is almost like a representation of him without him there. He has tried to talk to the family about it and they agree to try to do less with her but its almost like it is increasing. We will not speak of the issue with his mother anymore because it is almost like she is playing both sides of the fence. The question has been asked if maybe she is so invovled because it bothers him?
In addition, how do some work out the distance? His parents and brother have offered to drive the kids half way at a meeting point to him. He is in the military 4 hours away as I stated eariler. He asked her recently if on occation she would help drive 2 hours for drop off. She stated that she refuses, that it is not her problem. Is she right?? I can't seem to find any information on this. She states that he is not respectful to her, though he only speaks to her about the kids--- he is not sure if its because he has asked for seperate holidays?? he asked her what he did that was so disrepectful but she did not answer the question.
Any help with these issues? ↑ |
| Name: Mom3 | Date: Jun 21st, 2011 2:33 AM |
| I am a mom of two kids from a previous marriage and now have a step son. And I recently discovered that my ex husbands girlfriend is trying to make schooling decisions behind my back even though I have primary custody of them. They are with their dad on two nights a week. Can someone give me advice on how to react to this. ↑ |
| Name: Frustrated Mom | Date: Jun 22nd, 2011 2:07 PM |
| Dear Stacey, I am kind of in the same boat. I am a stepmom and my husband and I are expecting our first child together. His son has expressed that he would like to call me mom or some form of mom because he doesnt want to call me by my first name. His mother on the other hand has told him that I am not his mom and he is not to refer to me in that way. It has caused some problelms between my stepson and I because now he thinks he doesnt have to listen to me and the things I tell him because his mom has told him that he doesnt have to. I am concerned for my stepson. He is only seven and he just wants to make everyone happy. How should I handle the situation. I just want him to feel welcome and like part of the family when he is home with his dad and I. ↑ |
| Name: mtram1 | Date: Jul 17th, 2011 2:53 AM |
Hello, Im new at this but I need some advice!
My husband and i have been married for almost two years and his ex wife is horrible! I brought 1 child from my past realtionship and he has two children. My child is 3 where his is 14 and 18 and the past years his ex wife txs him all the time telling him im a gold digger and putting me down and for the record i work and go to school so not sure how that falls in being a gold digger but she thinks it does.. she is the one who cheated and messed the marriage up a few time and she is also remarried but cant seem to get past me and him dating. everytime she finds out that i paid for something of the kids she sends texts to my husband saying stuff like of course she can afford to pay for that stuff she lives off the goverment( which i dont, never have or will i) and she puts me down and all im trying to do is help her children when she is behind on her childsupport and doesnt see them unless it fits into her timing! how can i put her behind me? ↑ |
| Name: pixie | Date: Jan 3rd, 2012 11:40 AM |
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| Name: pixie | Date: Jan 14th, 2012 9:07 PM |
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| Name: huzlyn | Date: May 23rd, 2012 8:06 AM |
| Gaigs has been the love of my life since high school. I am currently 30, so you can see that's the last 12 years we were together. About 2 years ago I noticed a change in her. Real settle differences at first, but then it became more apparent as time went on. I noticed things like her withdrawing emotionally from me and the children, then lack of sexual intimacy, and more recently a withdraw from our family. We have a 3 year old daughter and a 2 year old son that are absolute angels as far as kids are concerned. They did not deserve their mother treating them this way, nor did they deserve the emotional abuse that they suffered because of this. I was so glad that I found Dr. Messiah the [email protected] i cast a spell to make her love us more and always look us as 1 family because of my children and myself. She was the greatest person in the world, my love and my life along with my children. I gave her my all, my heart, soul, love, and life. I honestly thought nothing could go wrong. The spell casting really changed her and she is always with the family now as we all ever wanted,Its kind of corny, but it was like a fairy tale relationship where the guy and girl are so in love that nothing else matters and will like to go an extra lent for doing anything. I never thought of her as one to cheat and I never questioned it. I knew we had a love that would last all other loves and a trust that couldn't be broken,she is now emotionally with the family now and my thanks to the [email protected] for helping me solve my awesome problem. ↑ |
| Name: kiars | Date: Jun 11th, 2012 2:34 PM |
| After the initial contact with Dr. Messiah the [email protected] I was still a bit skeptical but he did put my mind at ease and tell me that he would be there for me no matter what. I have heard this before,so I tested him by calling him different times of the day and night. He was there for me. I then decided that I would go ahead and order the love boat spell from him. Once I got everything sent to him he still remained in contact with me and wanted to ensure me that things would be ok. My concern was just getting my love back. When he cast the spell I started to notice the changes in her similar to the ones that I saw before just in the reverse. She started coming around and talking with me more and everything just started to fall into place from there which i could not belief. When she start her bad bevaviour liza our daughter, was getting so out of hand because of all the changes in her life that I couldn't believe it. When the [email protected] started coming back around with his spell casting service and getting closer to us our family started calming down and returning to normal,i am so happy today the family are happily again as one. My thanks to Dr. Messiah. ↑ |
| Name: linda | Date: Jul 4th, 2012 7:58 AM |
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| Name: maggy | Date: Jul 15th, 2012 4:19 AM |
| My husband and I have been married for 4 years come next month, even though we have known each other for 6 years. We are a blended family, me bringing 2 children and him bringing 3 children into the marriage. My husband is an Army. 7 months after we met he was deployed overseas for 15 months. We were both going through divorces and weren't ready for a relationship. He came back and we got together and shortly after that we were married. 6 months after that he was stationed to japan for a year. During the last 4 years we have had our ups and downs, hurts and resentments as well as dealing with past hurts from past relationships, dealing with the fact that he been coming and going due to the military. I admit that I haven't treated him the way I'm supposed to so i contacted the [email protected] the temple told me what to do when he comes back again. The last deployment I sunk into a deep depression and struggled to get out of. He's been home since March and it's been extremely good and now he is not sure to go back again. He has love me more than ever, but he is hoping that he get another job better than that. The only thing is that even if he can stay like this i am so so happy. I know that I have a long road ahead but I have enough faith for the both of us and I still believe in us and in our marriage,thank to the [email protected] for making him stay with me again,i will contact him for a spell to make my husband to get a new job. ↑ |
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| Name: jolson | Date: Aug 29th, 2012 6:08 PM |
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| Name: needsomebodyhelp | Date: Aug 29th, 2012 9:38 PM |
Hello. I need some help and advice. I am married to a lovely man who has a 6 year old son from a previous (albeit brief) relationship. Their 6 week relationship ended before she found out she was pregnant. He said he would be supportive but was not happy with her and thought it best to not to make the situation worse by getting back together with her. His ex did not tell him that his child had been born even though he had offered support. She did not tell him that she was going to sign the birth certificate and now holds that against him at every available opportunity. He fought for contact through a lawyer to be given 1 hour a fortnight in a contact centre to be supervised. She then ended this for no reason, only to continue the fight through lawyers letters, to then allow one visit with his parents present, to cancel it again, to cut all contact, to then contact my husband at home to allow contact. My husband pays what he can in child support directly to her but she then asks for more. If he says he can not give her anything else she phones his parents and barrages them with abuse and manipulates them and blackmails them into giving her money because their son cannot. She is so difficult, we have tried every possible approach but I am sure she has some sort of mental disorder. Are there any other wives in tough situations that can offer some sort of advice when dealing with a manipulative ex? Or anyone for that matter.
Thanks ↑ |
| Name: missu | Date: Sep 7th, 2012 2:15 PM |
| my name is missu and I am happy that [email protected] help me bring my boyfriend back, my boyfriend has started loving me again and he has promise to get married to me and have kids with me, he said he love me and he will never go close to any woman accept me and promise to get married to me next week. ↑ |
| Name: sarah | Date: Sep 8th, 2012 2:19 AM |
| God bless the [email protected] therapist oniha a lot. His spell casting is really great. All i think he should never stop with his work because there are still people out in the world who still needs his spell service and i will say eventhough you have not find him this is him the [email protected] just go straight to him and tell him your complaint,i assure you,he will make you happy just like mine. God bless him again and to all the people who are reading my note on this blog. ↑ |
| Name: jennifer H | Date: Oct 23rd, 2012 2:44 AM |
| HI My Name is Jennifer Harrison, I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called dr ABULU of( [email protected] has just done for me , this man has just brought back my lost family to me with his great spell, i was married to this man called James we were together for a long time and we loved our self’s but when i was unable to give he a child for 2 years he left me and told me he can’t continue anymore then i was now looking for ways to get he back until a friend of mine told me about this man and gave his contact email [email protected]) then you wont believe this when i contacted this man on my problems he prepared this spell cast and bring my lost husband back and after a month i miss my month and go for a test and the result stated am pregnant am happy today am a mother a baby girl, thank you once again the great ABULU for what you have done for me, if you are out there passing through this same kind of problems you can contact he today on his mail ([email protected] )and he will also help you as well ↑ |
| Name: priya | Date: Nov 23rd, 2012 1:37 PM |
| I never thought, in my whole life, that I would be writing to thank someone for casting a love spell on my marriage, but that day has arrived! It’s true that I didn’t believe in this kind of thing at all, but the faith Dr Ekaka had in me was more than I had in myself. It was truly a one-of-a-kind experience, and it has left me “spellbound” and i am very happy that in have my husband back to myself again! Most Sincerely, thanks to [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: lilian | Date: Nov 26th, 2012 12:13 AM |
| Hello, my name is Miss Lilian Rossy, I'm from USA. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is genuine and real. I never really believed in any of these things but when I was losing Garvin, I needed help and somewhere to turn badly. I found consultant.Ehis spells and i ordered a LOVE SPELL. Several days later, my phone rang. Garvin was his old self again and wanted to come back to me! Not only come back, the spell caster opened him up to how much I loved and needed him. Spell Casting isn't brainwashing, but they opened his eyes to how much we have to share together. I recommend anyone who is in my old situation to try it. It will bring you a wonderful surprises as well as your lover back to you. The way things were meant to be." you can contact the spell caster on [email protected] he's very nice and great. ↑ |
| Name: mercy4 | Date: Dec 16th, 2012 1:33 AM |
| I can't thank you enough for all that you have done for me. About a year ago I my partner split up, we had both made BIG mistakes in our relationship. He ended up moving away from me to pursue a new life. I knew in my heart that he would be the only one to make me happy. I was relieved when I found your email on a site about what you have done. I requested 1 to 2 day casting of the reunite us love spell and within 3days mark company had relocated him back to our hometown where I still lived. We immediately reconnected and move in with each other. Our wedding date is set for Summer 2012. Expect to see your invite in the mail thanks to [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: Josy | Date: Feb 15th, 2013 8:33 PM |
Can someone help me,
I have a three months old baby and my exboyfriend wwants to have him in the weekends but i think he is to little to do that and my ex is good for his son but i dont trust it to leave my baby with him at all. I think my ex has to wait until he is a year old to be with him in the weekemds. Is this bad thinking of me? He can visit his son wenever he wants for now ↑ |
| Name: sartre | Date: Feb 19th, 2013 5:54 PM |
| After being let down by other spell casters I was skeptical but when I decided to give wiseindividualspell a try I felt a sense of relieve. [email protected] answers all emails which proves to me he is fully dedicated to his clients and cares for them. is like a dream to me when my ex boyfriend come back to me! Please try [email protected]... you won't be let down. ↑ |
| Name: joanna | Date: Mar 2nd, 2013 10:54 AM |
| I met this spell through a friends description and he told me that he help him to get his wife back when another man took her from him and then i decided to try him out and i discover that he is the best and he is very powerful and just yesterday my husband whom i thought will never come back to me came and said to me that he was sorry for leaving me. i now so happy that my desire have been fulfilled. thank to the Dr.Wala of the [email protected] he is so powerful. ↑ |
| Name: deborah | Date: Apr 23rd, 2013 12:32 AM |
i am giving this testimony cos l am happy
My name is mrs. Deborah Collins from Houston,taxes.i never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once. when i went to Africa in March this year on a business summit. i ment a man called dr. Atakpo.He is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my love’s gone,misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you, bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job.i’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 2 years… i really loved him, but his mother was against me and he had no good paying job. so when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him..at first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. and in 6 days when i returned to taxes, my boyfriend (is now my husband ) he called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married..i didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do… well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid,and my husband also got a new job and our lives became much better. in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help, email address [email protected]
Great Atakpo i thank you very much thank you in 1000000 times.. if not you i would have been losted and wasted thank you.
please make sure you contact him for any financial difficulties okay..
What a powerful man such as Dr Atakpo.. he is so much powerful..\\ email him for any difficulties.. [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: ROSE MARY | Date: Apr 30th, 2013 1:32 AM |
| My name is Rose Mary from uk. I never believed in love spells or black magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa in march this year on a business summit. I meant a man who’s name is DR.EDUKA he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back one’s gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell for a good job or luck spell .I’m now happy that i am na a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me a weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 6years. I really loved him, but his father was against us and he had no good paying job. So when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him. At first i was undecided, skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. And in 5 days when i returned to Canada, my boyfriend (now husband) called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married. I didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do. Well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid, and my husband also got the new job and our lives became much better. His email is [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: Christy | Date: May 2nd, 2013 3:00 AM |
| to upset and going crazy - I first wrote on this blog in 2006 - it is now 2013 and my husbands ex is still crazier than ever, but - she can live her life miserable and dwelling on her mistakes in life. She does play childish games, though she is in her 40's now, she more often acts like she is 12. I have learned over the years that she is extremely mentally unstable and does not think like a normal human being thinks. Lee and I ignore her rants and live our lives. She is just a very miserable woman and wants to make anyone around her as miserable as she is. Some people choose to live miserable, and other choose to wake up every day and be happy. Lee and I have a beautiful ittle girl now, who is so happy. Lee and I are genuinely happy in our lives and our marriage has made it through many trials. He often says that all that matters is him and I and our kids - no one else matters, no one else is important or powerful enough to break our family apart or destroy our love for one another. ↑ |
| Name: lydia moore | Date: May 26th, 2013 9:55 AM |
HELLO EVERYONE
i just want to say a big thank you to doc ANEGBE for what he has done for me,He brought back the man i loved and cherish with all my heart,A man who left me for another woman for good 3years,with 2 kids,i just decided to check some spell caster's But all kept deceiving me,Until i meant Doc ANEGBE,Who told me everything will be over i taught he was also a scam,until he told me that my ex will be back in 2days time.Am so grateful today that my ex is back to me and we are happy and he always wanna be by my side,I will advice you people not to fall in the wrong hands but to contact doc ANEGBE who his trustworthy and straight forward,You can contact him via email [email protected] ↑ |
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