| amy, i was about 4 monthes pregnant when i left my son's father after he try to get me miscarriage. i had my family that cared, loved and supported me so i had the help i needed. but i was still scared. you are a strong woman and there are groups that can help you like dula, they are great. it will be hard but if you have support and friends and family behind you . you will to great. if not you will still do great. that baby you are carring is a mircale, just thinking that each day is new and that you are strong and beautful. ↑ |
Hi sweety, I hate for you to have to go through this, it's not an easy time but it is definitely going to test your strength of character. If you go to church I recommend leaning strongly on that family as well as your real family. If you were like me and had neither one, I recommend that you find one, ( a church that is) they will be a huge asset in food, clothing, friendship, childcare, oh my god is that going to be a necessity. I wish I could give you a specific road map but baby there isn't one. I hope you have your plans in order, a job, or school, because it's tough you may think of quiting and I cannot emphasize enough how important it is not to do that.
Also I found out, people are more willing to help you out if you are willing to ask for what you need without taking advantage of them. Your friends and family will know what you a able to do right now and they will become a foundation for you to build on. ↑ |
| is it hard being asingle mum ↑ |
| i m not ayoung single mum but im a 34 year old single mum i ve got four kids been separated for six long years listen its very scarey its not easy there is no easy way out or anwser the way i deal with life is to work it separates real life makes you real friends gives you somthing else to strive for give me a reason to wake up in the morning ↑ |
