Wow this is something that is way to deep for the average person I would seek counseling. Living a lie will kill a person especially when you carry the guilt like you are saying you have.
some people can move on without any problem but I would be like you as well. I cant even Lie. Are you sure this is your usbands baby? maybe you should think of making some life changes. If he is verbaly abusing you this will not change without professional help. ↑ |
| Well,the best thing you can do now is tell your husband BEFORE someone else does because they WILL!!! Just explain to him like you have explained here of what happened and how. He may be mad and may even leave but it's still better comming from you than someone else. Just do it and get it over with so you can get beyond it. He may get really mad but then he may also be forgiving since he hasn't been the best husband to you either. If your marriage is meant to be then things will work out, but trying to keep this secret will eat you alive inside so it's best to just get it out in the open. Besides like I said,if you don't someone else will. Perhaps not today or in the next month even but eventually he will be told so please just tell him yourself.....NOW! ↑ |
