ok i met my dreamman over a year ago he is perfect in everyway, his only fault i should say is that he has been married before and has a 3yr old daughter. being a 24 year old girl with no children it has been hard for me to adjust but I have tried my best because i know he is the one i want to spend my life with. his ex however is making it very difficult for us. when we first started dating i would go with him to pick his daughter up and drop her offm, at the time his ex had a boyfriend so she didnt seem to fazed by my presence. the drama started after she saw my boyfriend and i out on the weekend we had his daughter. we are both young so of course we go out, even when we have his daughter since she falls asleep by 10, my mother and his mother offer to take care of her for us so that we could still have a social life. well when we saw her out(she had never really seen me before besides in the car) she got really mad and started calling his phone saying it isnt right that he's out if he didnt want to take care of her then she would of never dropped her off and so on...then she said she was calling his mom to pick her up...that he's a bad father and thats why she didnt want to be with him....etc. he proceeded to tell her that its his weekend and he can do as he pleases on his weekend. since that day its been a rollercoaster. sometimes she will make excuses to call him and ask him questions that sometimes dont pertain to his daughter. when she calls to schedule a pickup or drop off/ she will make excuses to talk longer like do you have her crayons...(she never brings crayons) or her pink jacket(what pink jacket?)...she also calls about the childsupport, did you send it and when etc...she has even found my myspace and now writes mean stuff about me on hers like your just a rebound, its me he wants, i can get him back if i want. i have never done anything to this girl if anything she should be happy that i treat her daughter with right and with respect. i know this doesnt sound like much but i have never been in a situation like this and i need to know how to handle it please any suggestions would help. ↓
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