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why does evrything have to go to court? why cant people who have children sort theyre issues out with each other for the child? im smack in the middle of this and its driving me up the bloody wall! if you have kids surly you put aside anything for their sakes? so why dont mothers nowadays, why cant it just be 'ok weve split, you can have kid on this day that day and they can stay then' like it all used to be. its pathetic. sorry to all the mature mothers out there but all the stupid ones that put constant roadblocks in the way... id love to know why. ↓
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| Name: Tamora | Date: Jun 28th, 2006 10:11 PM |
| That is how it should be, I wouldn't have sleepless nights, ulcers, anxiety, and deppression if it was that easy. ↑ |
| Name: hana | Date: Jun 28th, 2006 10:44 PM |
| yeap i know that feeling. im 16 and deeling with it! i just thought id have a good old rant and vent some of my frustration out on all the pathetic little mothers who do it on this site so they can read it and know what silly bints the rest of the universe see them as... ↑ |
| Name: Shauna | Date: Jun 28th, 2006 10:47 PM |
| Certain things need to go to court. I think if you have a smooth divorce and still get along you should work out custody/visits amongst yourselves. But if my husband was hurting me in any way, he would have to take me to court to see my boys because I wouldn't want them to treat women that way. But I do agree, if you are getting a divorce just because you grew apart or are just tired of being married, you should not involve the kids. ↑ |
| Name: cmarshall | Date: Oct 7th, 2006 3:30 AM |
Sometimes it isnt fair! and kids pay to high of a price for their parents short comings...
Talk to you mother if you think she needs to stop doing stuff she is doing tell her.... sometimes hearing it from you children is enough to change....
good luck! ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Oct 9th, 2006 12:06 AM |
| It's control,it's power,it's jealousy. It's women who are still children themselves in their minds! ↑ |
| Name: atomic snowflake | Date: Oct 9th, 2006 11:16 AM |
If only things were that simple.
My sons father has taken me to court off and on for the past six years in order to try to take my son from me. He tries to convince them that I'm a bad mother - he wasn't custody so that he can avoid paying child support.
He refuses point blank to pay any child support and it's taken me three years to finally arrange some.
He's a control freak and a bully. All I've done is try to be a good mother and all he's done is try to harass me. My son now suffers from behavioural problems due to what his father has done to the family.
It's not just mothers who cause trouble you see.
People should put their differences aside when kids are involved, but sadly, some simply lack the maturity to do this.
My sons father always puts himself first and my son last. Going to court gives him the opportunity to bully and control me. ↑ |
| Name: mini mouse | Date: Oct 11th, 2006 2:01 PM |
| Hana, I think it is a way to get back sometimes for something the ex has done to them personally and unfortunately the kids are used as pawns in their game. Sad but true. I think that courts are there for the safety of children too... although sometimes the mind games kids are put through are just as destructive as any kind of physical abuse they could suffer and just as hurtful. mini mouse ↑ |
| Name: winnmom | Date: Oct 11th, 2006 8:48 PM |
I do not know why. My ex and I never went to court. We just decided ourselves on visits, child support etc.
I think a lot of times it is to hurt the ex. ↑ |
| Name: fancy | Date: Oct 11th, 2006 9:58 PM |
| I really dont have an answer I wish someone would ask my ex that I ve so many times I lst count because of him trying to take my two boys away but right now its been three years since I last walked into a court room maybe its a start hopefully right? ↑ |
| Name: fancy | Date: Oct 12th, 2006 1:30 AM |
| can everyone tell I cannot spell ↑ |
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