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Hello, I am not a hater, but I am kinda taken back by all of the Pregnant teens. I am not talking about the 18 or 19 year olds, I am talking about the 14 15 16 and 17 year olds. I am so sorry but I have to write this. I have a six and five year old daughters and I would hate to think of them getting pregnant in 10 years. The most shocking thing is, is that it sounds as if alot of them are happy it happened and tried to get pregnant on purpose. Why??? At 14 and 15 that is just sad and sick. Didn't they just start their period like two years ago?? Does anyone else share my opinion? ↓
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| Name: farahanne | Date: Oct 7th, 2009 7:12 AM |
| I know what you mean, but sometimes it happens on accident, and you have to come to terms with it, thats why some probably seem happy.. and as for the 13 and 14 year olds.. i think it's just an attention thing for MOST, not all. MOST. It is sad, but it can be done properly, I just hope that all the babies soon to be born to teen moms out there get a fair chance, ya know? ↑ |
| Name: Elizabeth28 | Date: Oct 7th, 2009 8:26 AM |
| I know, and I pray they all do get their fair chance for sure. I just know what they have to go through. My best friend years ago, got pregnant when she was 15, and she had it so hard. Her mother came down with Cancer so she had to pretty much take care of the baby by herself and go to school. When she finished school, she couldn't find herself a good enough job to make a decent wage, so she went into the army, and they sent her to Irac for a year. But now she is out, she served her time, now she has a good job and is making it. But it was a long road for her and she missed four years of his life. I am sorry for going on and on, but I have a niece that is 16, she has been sexually active now for at least 2 years that I know of. Two of her friends are pregnant, And it just seems like a big game to them. I know That accidents happen, but I just wished that they would wait to have sex until they are able to afford and cope with what comes with it. ↑ |
| Name: tinkerbelle519 | Date: Nov 7th, 2009 9:03 PM |
| I know what you mean totally! It is shocking to me too, even tho I was 18 when I had my first and 20 with my second. My older sister was 15 when she had her first, and 16 with her second and 17 with her third, and let me tell you, she had one hell of a time. I think that a lot of it has to do with parenting, not bashing other parents, but I know for myself and my sister, it was mostly done in spite to get away from them. It is crazy and just odd how many girls think that they will be able to stay with the guys, or have someone that loves them all the time. It is sad and I hope the best for all of them. I feel bad for people that try and try to have a baby and nothing happens, and then there are girls out there that get pregnant that do not have a chance. It is so sad. ↑ |
| Name: BabyLovin | Date: Nov 10th, 2009 7:03 PM |
It's not about being a hater at all. I'm 22 and I'm still shocked at all the young girls having babies, I'm almost 23 and I'm bout to have my first child, and I'm still in shock, I know the consequences, I've lived more than those girls have, so me knowing that it's not gonna be the same, is nothing compare to what they are going through.
They are very young, they havent even finished school yet. Yes accidents happen, but why are they even having sex? These are situations that they will look back when they are older, and understand other peoples concerns.
But I wish them the best, and hope that everything works out for them. And may their children be healthy and raised well...
God bless them! ↑ |
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