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Name: Parrot_lady_06

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You wanted to know how far apart to have your kids. I think that u should really take it slow because u just got out of a messy divorce a couple months ago and now you are pregnant with your ex-husbands baby and then met this new guy one month or so after your divorce, moved in and is already engaged to him. You are going way to fast at 18. Just take this time to enjoy with your unborn child and spend a few years with him/her before rushing in to other things. ↓

Name: nicole jones1 | Date: Oct 25th, 2006 3:52 AM

Thanks for the advice...

I do have to say that this baby is very much Paul's in every sense but biologically, though. My ex is not in the picture in an way shape or form.

We've decided that we'd like our family started off early. By the time our baby is old enough to try for another we will have been married well over a year, and we've decided that is enough time for us. ↑

Name: nicole jones1 | Date: Oct 25th, 2006 3:55 AM

I realize that I haven't exactly lived any part of my life on the the timeline most people do... but that works for me. I'm very well aware of what I'm getting into. ↑

Name: EthansMom0213 | Date: Oct 25th, 2006 8:08 AM

Why should what she does be any of our concern. There are people who get married only a couple of months knowing each other and who are living happily ever after. Then there are those that get married after being together for like 10 years who end up in divorce. She's not hurting anyone. And in the end if everything works out great. If not it will be something she will be able to use as a learning experience. Everyone makes mistakes. Whether this is one of her no one know, not even Nicole or her fiance. Right now this is what feels right to them and that is the only two people it should matter two. ↑

Name: MVSavant | Date: Oct 25th, 2006 4:32 PM

SHE'S NOT IN HER RIGHT MIND,SHE NEEDS HELP. ↑

Name: charla | Date: Oct 25th, 2006 4:42 PM

brcouse she asked for the advise that why. ↑

Name: nicole jones1 | Date: Oct 25th, 2006 6:59 PM

I didn't ask for the advice on this...

I asked how far apart you guys spaced your children..... ↑

Name: Parrot_lady_06 | Date: Oct 25th, 2006 9:09 PM

Ok, first of all, Ethansmom, if u read my subject line it strictly said TO NICOLE. She asked a question in another thread and i was just trying to give her MY advice, not yours or anybodys else. All i was trying to tell her is that she is still very young and should focus on getting her life/career/family together first, focus on raising her child that isnt even here as yet and maybe later on down the road see what happens and not worry about having her kids so close together now. She is still very young and she just met this guy and they should grow together a little bit first before rushing into having a child together, heck thats if he will even be supportive in rasing this baby that isnt even his right now. ↑