hi my name is Laura and wow i could be pregnant!......and i am scared to death....well ok i feel really sick always around 3 in the afternoon....and my chest hurts!.....well hmm....give me some help people!
--Laura ↓
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| Name: ARMANISMOM | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 10:43 AM |
| If you are old enough to screw around then you should be old enough to deal with the consequences. I pray you are not pregnant. ↑ |
| Name: Aharris | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 12:32 PM |
| The first thing you want to do is go and see a doctor or get a pregnancy test to make sure. Then you need to figure out what you want to do and have to do. I am sure if you talk to someone close to you then you will make the right choices and everything will be fine. Good Luck! Let me know if you need more help. ↑ |
| Name: sexy_muma_06 | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 12:35 PM |
hi,
armanismom that was pretty harsh.laura yh you could well be pregnant. but you need to take a test either by one from your pharmacy for about £10 or go to your nearest family planning clinic and they will do one for free or just go to your doctor. if u are doing a home pregnancy test it is best to do it first thing in the morning. you still with the might be dad? if you are pregnant you are going to need all the support you can get. i am 15 nearly 16 and i am 27 weeks pregnant with a lil boy. msn is [email protected] or my yahoo messenger/mail is [email protected]. if you need talk . good luck
jayde
p.s. get the test done asap ↑ |
| Name: Petrona | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 2:09 PM |
| Exactly how can we help you in here? Get a pregnancy test and if it's positive, come back here and ask for advice. But to say your chest hurts and you feel sick at 3pm, really doesn't give any indication of pregnancy. Also if you're not, please use protection if you feel you must have sex. 13 is way too early to be giving up your childhood. ↑ |
| Name: mommyagain | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 2:39 PM |
| Well said Petrona, I really dont think just from those few things that you are pregnant. Have you missed your period? Did you have unprotected sex? If so like Petrone said... if it turns out you are not... let this scare be a lesson to you. you have your whole life ahead of you. If you are pregnant then what is done is done and you should be educated about your options. ↑ |
| Name: Laurabean09 | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 4:55 PM |
| yeah ok...no condom! but dont be rude..just because im 13...god!.....it just happened! ↑ |
| Name: mommyx2 | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 5:06 PM |
| I agree with Petrona and Mommyagain, you are 13 and your breast could be hurting because you are still a little girl and your chest is not fully developed. Also, use condoms. Are you trying to get pregnant?? Come back here after you take the test. Until then, play outside, do kids stuff!! YOU ARE WAY TOO YOUNG!! ↑ |
| Name: Sarah M | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 5:16 PM |
| Laura hi. Have you taken a test/If not you can usually get them at the dollar store. Telling you use a condom isnt gonna help if your already pregnant nor will being rude like some others. the only thing i can say is take a test and if it comes back positive them let me know and I can help you from there. I have all messangers incase you dont want to talk on here do to the rude girls just let me know ↑ |
| Name: Sarah M | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 5:18 PM |
| BTW im 19 and have a 2 yr old lil girl and am currenlty pregnant with my lil guy do in October ↑ |
| Name: EthansMom0213 | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 6:07 PM |
Okay I don't want to be rude by any means, but I am so confused when someone comes in here and asks us all to help them figure out whether or not they could be pregnant. If you think you pregnant you best bet always is to go and get a HPT or go to you doctor to have a pregnancy test done. It's very hard for someone to tell you that your pregnant.
Now if the pregnancy test comes back positive and you need advise this a great place for that. If it comes back negative and you still haven't gotten your period I would recommend going to the doctor if you haven't already. If you have a Planned Parenthood in your area most of the time you can walk in with no questions asked. But you can pick up a HPT anyways. ↑ |
| Name: mommyagain | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 6:55 PM |
| I dont think anyone is trying to be rude to you Laura, we are just saying not to panic until you have something to panic about and the same thing I would tell anyone who is pregnant and not wanting to be... use this as a lesson learned. Also did you really think you were going to come on here and have people tell you " oh wow your 13 I really hope you are pregnant" of course not. BUT if you are whats done is done and we will give you all the advice we can give. ↑ |
| Name: connie | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 7:04 PM |
I also agree will everyone, no one is trying to be rude but they do want to get a point across that you are too young to be having sex and too young to have unprotected sex. If you are sexual active I would talk to you doctor about birth control of some method.
You need to take a pregnancy test, you have so much life ahead of you ,you will have lots of time to have children .
I hope everything works out, you know we will be here for you. ↑ |
| Name: babey_g_311 | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 9:25 PM |
| I dont think its even so much the fact that your young....I was about your age when I started having sex BUT I always used protection, Its not very hard I went to a place called planned parenthood that gives out free birth control and condoms, I live in a small town in northern minnesota, Im sure if we have that here they have it just about anywhere or something like it. Theres alot of girls on here about your age that are pregnant and I just dont understand how girls this age are not using birth control. I think armanismom came off harsh but I believe with what she says, anytime you have sex without protection no matter if your 13 or 25 your asking to get pregnant. Sorry if you dont like my reply but thats just how it is, im not saying your a bad person or a slut im just saying if your lucky enough to not be pregnant this time get some birth control, best of luck ↑ |
| Name: Kristy84 | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 9:46 PM |
| This is so scary. I mean I'm 22, and thought I lost my virginity at a young age; I was almost 16. I'm having a little girl and I'm petrified of her growing up in a society where it's normal to be pregnant at 13. I'm not judging anyone, but it still worries me. I don 't know what's wrong with girls today; why do we give ourselves away at such a young age? Is there anything to look forward to in life, when you've given birth at 13? I hope that your not pregnant, for your sake. Stop having sex or start wrapping it up; those are your two choices if you're not pg. My fiance wants to start our little girl on birth control as soon as she starts puberty, don't know if he's serious:) It's one thing to get pg in high school, but junior high, come on. ↑ |
| Name: Sarah M | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 9:51 PM |
| I actually believe starting birthcontrol when they start their period is a good idea because sometimes its not the girls who choose to get pregnant they get forced and i would rather my lil girl be safe then sorry. Either way I would still love her but I will probably start her on it when she hits her period just for her safety ↑ |
| Name: Laurabean09 | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 10:37 PM |
| umm well my mom wants me on birthcontrol...but my doctor said that would have 2 wait til im 15 or 16(which i thought was gay)....well i didnt plan on this happening.....but like i wasnt forced....i love my boyfriend to death....and like i was stupid and gave in....god i feel really dumb......but my best friend is here and she is going with me tomorrow to take a test!....im gonna freak out if i am,,,,but i hope not....my boy said that it would be kinda cool to be a parent ....i kinda agree but i kno at this age....i couldnt handle it....i have the rest of my life to deal with....and everyone tells me im great with kids....and me and my bestfriend are like SISTERS!!!...and she was forced to have sex with her boyfriend and then got pregnant....but he left her....(im gonna kill him)...and she just had her baby on june 2 2006....his name is Eligh....i have been with her day in and day out!....but i am so scared if i am....and my mom doesnt kno....but she told me stories when she was pregnant....she said she didnt even have to take a test...she already knew and somereason...i feel like i kno i am....and thats whats freakin me out.....and people please dont mess with me like im to young...cause i admit i am young and i didnt want this to happen but it did....and i wish i could take it back!.. please help me ↑ |
| Name: connie | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 10:51 PM |
What help do you need? Let us know what the test says, if you are you have to tell your Mom you don't want to go through this just with your best friend.
If your not, then I would still talk to someone about birth control, your boyfriend has to be responisble too-you can always use condoms, I know your young but if you think you are old enough to have sex your old enough to be responisble too.
Good luck keep us posted.
PLEASE TALK TO YOUR PARENTS TOO ↑ |
| Name: EthansMom0213 | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 3:27 AM |
| If your not pregnant and your mom wants you on birth control go to Planned Parenthood if you have on in your area or around your area. You can visit http://www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/portal/ to find a Planned Parenthood near you. ↑ |
| Name: granny2be | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 10:33 AM |
I hope you aren't pregnant because 13 is SO young. This is coming from a woman with a 14 year old who is pregnant. If you are, tell your mother or someone else in the family (adult) who you feel you can trust.
Regardless if you are or not, if you continue to have sex then make sure you use condoms, there are things out there far worse than pregnancy you can get from not using them.
I understand why part of you thinks it might be cool, but trust me, having a baby at any age is hard enough....but as a young teen it will be harder on you both physically and emotionally. Your body still hasn't finished developing at 13 so adding a pregnany adds A LOT more stress to it. ↑ |
| Name: Cassi | Date: Jul 29th, 2006 7:19 AM |
i'd just like to say good luck to you, i may be 17, but im going threw the whole, i think i am stage too, and you see, although i did use a condom... it broke, which is dissapointing.
but if you need someone to talk to,
you can talk to me.
AIM: SuperstarOMG
EMAIL: [email protected] ↑ |
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