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Name: Stephinie

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2 years ago, my mum met a new man and from the first moment he met me he started to flirt with me. He is 39 and my mum is 42. In september i found out they were getting married and i knew it was a bad idea. I told my mum that he had been flirting with me and she got really angry and started calling me a liar and she said i was saying it because i didnt like him and then said i had best stop it because she was going to marry him weather i like it or not!! I just sat down and cried. One night my mum went out with her best friend and he started getting really close to me then before i even knew what was happening he had pulled my trousers down and was having sex with me. That happened at the end of october and i haven't been on my period since so i know im pregnant but i can't tell my mum because of what happened when i tried to tell her before. she knows im pregnant and she was ok with it but i can't tell her who's the baby is because when i tried to get her help last time. PLEASE HELP ME I'M SCARED ↓

Name: ANGELA_N | Date: Feb 13th, 2006 8:23 PM

I FEEL REALLY BAD FOR YOU, THERE IS HELP OUT THERE FOR YOUIF YOU SPEAK TO THE RIGHT PEOPLE A PERSON OF AUTHORITY. IF YOU ARE PREGNANT IT CAN BE PROVED WHEN YOU HAVE THE BABY BY A DNA TEST. YOU'RE MOTHER SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF HERSELF. DO YOU HAVE YOUR BIOLOGICAL FATHER IN YOUR LIFE? WHAT AGE ARE U? GIVE ME YOUR EMAIL ADRESS IF YOU WANT TO TALK TO ME. ↑

Name: stephinie | Date: Feb 13th, 2006 8:32 PM

my e-mail address is [email protected] if anyone wants to talk to me ↑

Name: Irene | Date: Feb 14th, 2006 3:12 AM

Stephanie....how old are you?
go get pregancy test to find out for sure for starters, im finding it hard to believe taht a mother will be okay about you being pregnant, anyway, if this is the case, you need to tell your mother so she can get rid of her so called husband..
email me if you like [email protected] ↑

Name: Tameka | Date: Feb 14th, 2006 11:00 PM

Sweetheart. You tell the police IMMEDIATELY! If he forced himself on you. Thats not your fault. You need to tell someone ASAP. Doesn't matter if it will hurt someone or not. The matter of the fact is, IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT. You tried to get help before it even happened. Your mother is the one who shouldn't have put a man before her own daughter. Basically she isn't a mother if she did that. So you either need to fess up and tell her now! Or; tell the police IMMEDIATELY!! Good luck. Tell me what happens or keep me informed. I really want to know if you're okay.
MSN: [email protected]
YAHOO: cr1p_g4ngstuh_m3k4_cr1p
AOL: Thugmeka804 ↑

Name: cindy | Date: Feb 15th, 2006 5:20 AM

stephinie,if you would like to talk,i have a few ideas.you can e-mail me at [email protected] ↑

Name: rosanne | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 7:12 AM

hi ↑

Name: AJ | Date: Mar 6th, 2006 12:35 AM

LISTEN YO BETTER TELL SOMEBODY QUICK FAST IN A HURRY. WHY WOULD YOU EVEN WANT TO GIVE BIRTH TO A BABY FROM A GUY THAT TOOK ADVANTAGE OF YOU ESPEACIALLY FROM YOUR MOTHERS MAN ↑

Name: SANTANA! | Date: Mar 14th, 2006 8:35 PM

omg u know whut i am 15 and pregnant and yeah it was the hardest thing to tell my mom? but this when i read this its crazy because i personally get that your mother (birthgiver) is choosing her man over her own blood! and yeah thats not good... but you know whut my Grandmother is the same way she picked her pervert husband over my Disabled youngest Aunty and you know what i feel alot of anger over that!! its just not good how your mother is choosing cock over Blood you know what i mean!! lol i dont mean to sound mean or anything but hey were tha ones that opened our legs? lol but yeah get it out to your mom okay it will be the bestes thing you ever did!!! lol well you will Feel alot of your shoulders? but yeah i know how you FEEL 2 the Fullest but hey if u have msn u could add me okay c u!!! [email protected] and yeah i could help you way more!! and when u add me or not just tell me okay!! and yeah ill be Really Happy 2 talk 2 you !! cya Luv ya!! ↑

Name: SANTANA! | Date: Mar 14th, 2006 8:38 PM

just dont be scared you tried to do the rite thing from the start and you know that just show your mom the blood Results and yeah you could probably Put the man away for along time like i didi!! k but hey "keep u're Head up"!! lol u know u make me happy! by telling us people who care!! yupyup ↑

Name: Fredia McGee | Date: Mar 15th, 2006 4:52 PM

I am so sorry to hear this. This is a very sad story and I am so sorry that you had to go through something like this. You should go to a local clinic...perhaps planned parenthood or somewhere like that and talk to a counselor. Explain to them what happened to you and the proper actions will be taken in order to deal with your step father. Stephinie...one thing that you should realize is that you are a rape victim...he raped you...you did not give consent and he should be punished. The decision is yours and you can get help or live with this for the rest of your life. One thing you should know though is that no matter what you decide to do it was not and it is not your fault. You did nothing wrong. I hope that you will take my advice and I hope that you are not too hard on yourself. I love you, good luck, and God Bless you. ↑