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Name: deja vu18
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The way I see it is, we are all brainwashed. We think that skinny=beautiful. Is it really? It's all because of the media, trust me on this. We see skinny on tv. and that gives our brains a signal telling it that we need to be skinny in order to be accepted in the society. Do you actually think that famous people are happy? Of course they're not.. They just pretend to be. It's not that hard to pretend that you are happy. Hey, I've done it so many times it hurts. I'm not saying that it's ok. to be fat., but if it is the way you are and if it is not ruining your health then why is it a bad thing?People will love you no matter what you look like, the important thing is that you are healthy and that your a social person with a good sense of humor.
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Name: kayleighd86 | Date: Jan 12th, 2007 5:54 PM
i am a saize 14 since i had my baby and i think i look alot better than the sticks you see walking round. most of the guys i know prefer someone who doesnt look like they will break when they touch them. i think beauty is within.
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Name: low snake | Date: Jan 13th, 2007 4:08 PM
well im just a little chuby, some people make fun of me and some people are just scared of me i mean come on im only 13 and a 7th grader at einstein middle school. 

Name: deja vu18 | Date: Jan 13th, 2007 6:39 PM
lowsnake, the people who make fun of you are losers, trust me. The important thing is to try to fit in as best as you can and don't think too much about what people think of you. Trust me as soon as they see that you are a normal person with a big heart, they will leave you alone. You just need to give them a chance to get to know you a little better. 

Name: Sasha | Date: Jan 13th, 2007 6:47 PM
Yeah I know what your saying. But its not only on tv that we see these thin images its all around us everyday being advertised at bus stops and in magazines. Im 21 and i have a little sister who looks up to me I don't want her or any other little girls out there growing up thinking that they have to be a size 0. I think the message to be thin is stronger today then it ever has been. However we shouldn't hate women who want to fit the ideal we should just except every womens way of dealing with the pressures of society to be skinny, and we should all help eachother out. 

Name: Shannx | Date: Jan 14th, 2007 5:42 PM
I agree 100% but you cant make everyone else feel the same way.. people say that youre fat just to hurt your feelings and if youre over sensitive as it is you think oh god i cant eat tomorrow and it just sticks.. its horrible..

It h u r t ' s

They dont know how much it hurts and how seriously we take things.. they just think its funny..

Sometimes things will never c hange no matter how much you wan them to.. and this is just one of those thing's.. 

Name: tilly22 | Date: Apr 16th, 2007 9:48 PM
what you have written i agree with, but i get so confused by the media, one day the headlines in the paper are saying that british women are the most obesed in europe the next women are too skinny!i know i should do what meakes me happy but have fallen into the trap so much so that i cant stop i almost dont want to stop! this time last year i was a size 14, i was always fat in my mind and its true one coment can change everything, everyday i wake up terrified of gaining weight, i almost feel embressed of myself for feeling this. 


Name: Holly__rp | Date: Apr 16th, 2007 10:47 PM
"People will love you no matter what you look like" that might be when your older but when your in school looks are everything and not everyone likes you if your not skinny. 

Name: miss_throw_09 | Date: Apr 23rd, 2007 11:29 PM
yeha i agree with this..but im big and i get made fun of. it hurts and i dont think they relize what that does to you. it makes you just want to die and it makes you think...if i get skinny liek them..i wont get made fun of 

Name: tattudemom | Date: Apr 24th, 2007 1:11 AM
My son is 17 and he and all of his friends say they'd much rather go out with a girl with some meat on her bones than a twig. It's the females that make each other think there's something wrong with having a few curves. Particularly teen girls can be so cruel and self-absorbed. If you're healthy and maintain a consistent weight, even if a few pounds more than you'd like, you're still healthier than if you were anorexic and/or bulimic. Be confident and work on the inner you for real fulfillment. 

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