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Name: max

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Hey everyone. My girlfriend thinks she's fat, which she's not. In my eyes she's a wonderful person and very attractive. She keeps worrying and telling me that she's fat...it's like she trys to please with me. I keep telling her I like her just the way she is. But she doesn't get it? How can I tell she's not fat, and that I don't care about looks, it's the inside that counts?? ↓

Name: beenthere | Date: Apr 14th, 2006 5:33 AM

you will never convince her that she isn't fat when she really is fat!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ↑

Name: max | Date: Apr 14th, 2006 5:01 PM

she isn't fat that's the thing. ↑

Name: JODI | Date: Apr 19th, 2006 2:36 AM

NOTTTTTT FATTTTTTT ↑

Name: Max | Date: Apr 19th, 2006 3:09 AM

Shes 5'6 and ways like 130 pounds. ↑

Name: Serina | Date: Apr 19th, 2006 12:32 PM

She must have a porr body image and not fell good about her self.You just keep saying how you feel about her and they next time after you say how you feel Ask her how you can help her feel better about her self. Maybe she wants to cut down on food you eat together. Maybe she wants your support. or just to exersicze together. Other than that . No much you can do .If it is constant maybe she needs some couseling to help her.
Godd luck & eat and live Healthy ↑

Name: bri | Date: Oct 22nd, 2006 11:53 AM

dude, she is like the perfect weight. she should be lucky she isn't one of those obese people that end getting gastric bypass surgery just to stay alive. ↑

Name: cassie | Date: Nov 3rd, 2006 12:06 AM

Maybe she just feels insecure about her body.
I always think that boys are thinking that im fat so i just say im fat so that it doesnt hurt so much if they do say anything.
Even though shes not fat, she still see's herself as fat and its somthing that most teen girls go through so all you can do is compliment her like "You look great in that dress" just slip a compliment every so often and she might become more confident with her body and accept the way she looks. :D
Hope this helps. ↑

Name: Shannx | Date: Dec 11th, 2006 9:29 PM

someone's obviously told her that she's fat.. weather it was at school ages ago.. maybe even year's ago
But she's probably a very sensitive person.. and when someone says something it sticks!
Shes believed what that person has said..and its going to take alot of hard work and effort.. to help her belive that shes not fat..
If you really care about her.. youll help her ↑