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Name: Childofthedivine

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Please don't judge me but I am sixteen years old and would love to have a baby. I've been with my boyfriend for three years and I'd like to start my family. My boyfriend would like a baby but he is afraid of the financial problems. Then my mom is completely disapproving. But all in all it's MY decision to get on birth control pills or continue on the depo provera shot. I've got my plans for raising and taking care of the baby, I'm mentally prepared and ready to have a child, and I've already grown up quite a bit. I've been second mommy to my sisters since I was ten.. But what should I do? Get the shot to make everyone happy or get the pills to make Myself happy for once? I'd like to talk to anyone who is trying to get pregnant at a young age too and if anyone has any opinions or advice it's appreciated! ↓

Name: primm | Date: Nov 24th, 2010 5:08 PM

my email is [email protected] if u woul;d liek to talk. i was 16 when i had my first child. i have 4 and im 28 now and noww looking for teen moms to be a surrogate mother or adopt there child ↑

Name: Nic_and_Chris | Date: Dec 27th, 2010 11:13 PM

I'm Nic, I had the same mind set as you before I had my twin boys. After my mother as put in a hospital home for a couple of months I watched my 4 year old sister for 18 months. The first time I was prego , I lost the child at 10 weeks. I never thaught that would happen to me, i was a mess for months. Shortly after I found I was prego adain and having identical twins. My boyfriend of 6 years had an identical twin as well but he was lost at birth. I was scared for my children the entire time... still am. We had bad money problems the entire time bacasue I was the only one working and Chris was in probation for some stupid thing. After my mom passed away I got all her money just in time to have the boys. The hardest thing out of all of this mess was my mom not wanting me to have my boys....now she isn't here to help. Nor is Chris's mom. I live with chris with my boys, Compten and Johnathen, and my little sister. I always heard teem moms say they wished they waited and blah blah blah.... but it couldn't be more true. My boys and sister will never have everything they want because of money. I know how that feels, I grew up more poor then I am now. So if anything wait for money, and read up on alot. That mtv show teen mom is more real then we think. ↑

Name: danielle94 | Date: Jun 13th, 2011 12:54 AM

Hi i am 16 17 in august and really want a baby and have lived with my boyfriend of 3 years for 14 mounth i have grown up looking after children as at the age of 10 i took on my younger brother and raised him till he was 5 and now i feel lost even though me and my boyfriend have my brother now age 7 sister age 2 and other sister age 1 every weekend i want my own baby i am still at college and my boyfriend age 20 is setting up his own business please could any one give me some advise or email me for a chat on [email protected] all coments and emails are welcome x x x ↑

Name: jordans girl | Date: Jun 22nd, 2011 11:23 PM

I am 16 years old and i am dying to have a baby, but i dont want to dissapoint my grandparents. my mom wouldnt like the fact but she would be ok after a while. my bf is 23 and has a pretty good job. and i dont want for anything. what should i do. plzz help me. ↑