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My daughter who is 17 moved out this summer and moved in with a 28 year old man, and there is nothing that I can do about it. I know their both doing drugs, anything they can get there hands on. I'm just at a lost, I don't know what to do....the only thing I can think of is to get them busted. I'm really heart broken because we were really close once..I miss her so much. ↓
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| Name: Stephanie | Date: Jan 10th, 2006 10:34 PM |
| You have to really think if you want your daughter to go to jail because your upset at her. If she's doing drugs and this and that then maybe you should let her learn her own mistakes...depending on the drugs they got busted with she could possibly get probation which would teach her to be responsible...there are many different pro's and con's to this situation. ↑ |
| Name: Suezzan | Date: Jan 10th, 2006 11:54 PM |
| I really don't want to get her busted. I want her to realize that she is just arm-candy to this man...he has nothing to offer her but drugs. Bottom line...I did not want her to go down the road I went down when I was her age. If she doesn't want to listen to me I wish she would listen to someone else!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: becky | Date: Jan 13th, 2006 8:13 PM |
| i just want to say to becaful whit her ↑ |
| Name: b. | Date: Jan 16th, 2006 11:44 AM |
| it might be hard for you to do this but if you truly love your daughter, you have to make an intervention- and it sounds like bringing in the law enforcement is the only way. Yes- she;ll be furious, but wouldn't you rather have an angry daughter then a dead one? ↑ |
| Name: Sandy | Date: Jan 17th, 2006 6:13 PM |
| Isn't a 28 year old man with a 17 year old "child" illegal in your state? Last time I checked. the legal age was 18! You are the mom and as long as she is 17, YOU CALL THE SHOTS!!! If you need to get the authorities involved, then do so. I'm sure the local law enforcement in your town will have no problem escorting the dirt bag away, because if he is 28 and using drugs, I am sure he has outstanding warrants due to past altercations with the law. Go over there and physically take your "child" home with you. She may hate you now, but beleive me, she will get over it! ↑ |
| Name: B | Date: Jan 18th, 2006 1:15 AM |
| If you dont want to get the police involved I can understand. If she were my daughter I would call my big brother or some other man in my family to kick some serious @**! The 28 year old man is a disgusting predator and she wont stop seing him but he'll get the message to stop seeing her after a visit from my brother. Dont tell her you had anything to do with him leaving her just be there to pick up the peices when 28 "leaves her". ↑ |
| Name: LIsa | Date: Jan 19th, 2006 2:45 AM |
| I know how tuff this is to handle, my son, soon to be 23, was busted in 2004 and has been in drug court since. I'm afraid he has bucked the system so far, he has had many chances. My husband and I kicked him out 6 months ago for having two hot UA's and lying about one of them. By the Grace of God, his grandmother has allowed him to move in with her. He has been sanctioned to spend a couple of times in jail for screwing up in Drug Court. I'm afraid it just a matter of time, he will be spending lots of time in jail for his 4 counts pertaining to drugs. This is his first run in with the law. So which is better, barely getting by on the streets and thinking you have no problem. Or doing time in jail hoping it will give lots of time for thinking about what direction your life is taking. As a parents its a killer either way. But I'm sick and tired of the lying, and disrespectfulness we have been getting from our Son. To have him be little again so I can hold him and love him, and try to figure out what went wrong and try to take him in another direction ↑ |
| Name: jj | Date: Mar 8th, 2006 11:47 PM |
| Call the cops she sould be punished ↑ |
| Name: Cyn | Date: Mar 18th, 2006 10:16 PM |
Don't even hesitate to tell the Authorities what they're up to! I'm sure any parent would rather suffer the 'I hate you" drama from their child than to get that knock on the door to deliver a horrific message that you're needed down at the morgue to 'identify' her.
If you're in a State that legal age is 18, you can also press charges against her boyfriend for statutory rape.
Good luck! My prayers are definitely with you!
Cyn ↑ |
| Name: Lisa | Date: Mar 31st, 2006 11:35 PM |
| Shes 17,you could have him jailed for statutory rape of a minor.But my guess is it would only make her hate you and she would be right back with him when he was released anyway,plus shes about to turn 18 and can do whatever she wants then anyway so just let her make her mistakes and live to regret them,its really all you can do. ↑ |
| Name: nicole | Date: Jun 9th, 2006 4:39 AM |
| sounds like the age isnt the problem. i'm 17 and married to a 36 year old, which sounds really bad, but i took all the necessary legal steps and got a job, finished highschool, went to college... sometimes people really do just fall in love.. if that was the only problem i would say to watch her and help her make other good choices - but i think you have a sad sad problem on your hands with the drugs ↑ |
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