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Name: Tanisha

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HI. I'm 15 years old and i'm a very good student. My best friend and i are very close, she has a very loving mother. I myself don't have a mother and i sometimes find it hard to be around my friend and her mother. Recently my friends mother has found out i'm sexually active and she seems very sad about it, she began crying when i admitted it to her. I don't know how to make her feel better and i feel ashamed around her now. My friend says i should just sit and talk to her but i don't have my own mother so I don't know how to even start talking, and anyway i feel weird because isn't that sort of invading on someone elses mother? i'm very confused any suggestions are welcome! ↓

Name: Latrice | Date: Jan 31st, 2006 5:31 PM

well no it isnt because she is just tring to be there for you and to help you so you want end up like those other young girls on the street so just start by saying thank you for being a good mother to stand up and talk to me when no one is or was there to talk to me ↑

Name: Blessed | Date: Feb 5th, 2006 6:56 AM

My mom died when I was 9. My dad basically went with her because he was never the same. I had the same type of thing happen with me and my friends mom. Your not invading, your best friend doesnt mind and her mom obviously cares alot about you. Dont do this to yourself, you are worthy of love even if it is not from your real mom. I can tell that you really do want to talk to her and you dont always have to know exactly what you are going to say. Just be up front and honest. Tell her you dont know what to say but feel like you need to talk to someone. She is the adult and she will know where to go from there. I hope you get what your looking for Tanisha. I was on the same path and ended up pregnant at 15 and had my second at 16 1/2. My son is almost your age now. So there is alot to be sad about, your story instantly grabbed me. If you need anything you can email me [email protected] ↑

Name: its ok | Date: Jun 19th, 2006 3:19 AM

You should be very happy that someone loves you enough to be concerned about you, just because they want to. Theres nothing wrong with talking to her about that kind of thing, being as you have no mother of your own, and being as she loves you enough to be concerned. ↑

Name: Charla | Date: Jun 19th, 2006 2:16 PM

you bitch ↑

Name: Siddhant | Date: Jun 23rd, 2006 8:06 AM

You no you should do as your your friend says.You see I am in puberty and i like girls but I don't sleep with my girlfriends.It sit with your friend's mom and talk to her.Just say that you are in love with another boy and you want to be sexually active with him.See if you love a particullar boy and he loves you too and you want to marry him and then have sex it is ok so go on say your feelings and after some years when you get married have sex and have children.I will guarentee you then she would love you.And you are not invading her ok best wishes sexy girl! ↑

Name: sarah | Date: Jun 24th, 2006 7:45 PM

how to talk to a mom ↑