| Not for a long time. Right now, just be a teen. Don't end up like I did. I'm 18 and pregnant with twins. If you really want to have a baby, maybe you can talk to your parents and see how they feel. ↑ |
Well you know it's right when you feel like it i guess. It's not like "Ok I'm 15/16/17 and I have to have sex now." but when it happens, it happens. What is good though is that your actually thinking about the word "right" and are consciously thinking of what your suppose to be doing or not.
And as a side tid bit it seems a lot of people start having sex 14-18 onward. So if you do start having sex at this age or sooner than later then just make sure to take the right precautions and always try to keep asking question like you are and never do anything you may feel uncomfortable with.
What do you say to a guy who doesn't know your alive? "Hi"
I am 16 ^_^ and yes I have had sex before. ↑ |
Sex is not a bad thing. But it is so important that you plan this out first! Would you just hop on a bike and expect to not fall? Here's what you should do
1. Make sure you talk to your parents about this. Tell them you are thinking about this seriously. And you want to make sure you are put on the proper birth control. Being open is the best thing. Even if your parents won't understand. Tell them would they rather you tell them this now or wait till you are pregnant and in trouble? I think parents now days should open there eyes.
2. Once you are on a form of birth control. Take your time.. there is no one pushing you to have sex. If the right boy comes along. Date him first! Make absolute sure he's the one. You don't want to waste this special time on a jerk! lol Trust me.
3. Be prepared for disappointment. Nothing is ever perfect! and young love is very hard sometimes. Just try to make sure you are ready physical and mentally for this roller coaster ride. lol
If you are.. Great! Just be honest wither yourself and everyone else around you. I do hope you have understanding parents. As a matter of fact. My daughter is 14. I asked her already about this. She got so embarrassed that I asked her lol I want to make sure she tells me. So she can be prepared. She don't want to be on any birth control because she tells me. She don't want to have sex. I am relieved but still I worry.. I rather have her on something just in case! Because it don't take long.. and it only takes one time.
Good luck! and I hope I was of some help to you! :) ↑ |
What to say to a boy who doesn't know your alive? Well if he is a very popular boy in school. and you are the shy type. Walk by him in the hall.. and smile. give him that look and bat your eyes and then look away. And keep walking.
It will make him think. But don't over do it.. Let him come to you. If he's in your class. Do small things to catch his eye. Be funny. And try hard not to show how you feel. I know this is so hard. Boys respect girls who are not easy and who are funny and honest.
Most importantly, always think positive thoughts when you are around him. This will give you more good karma. Karma helps. Try hard not to get to nervous around him. I remember when I was your age. And it was hard. But most the time.. they'd come to me. And I was very shy. Once he does make his move. If he randomly says hi to as you walk in class etc. Smile and look him in the eye. He'll know by your body language weather ur interested or not. If you both have things in common. Then find out and maybe this will lead you both into a good friendship. Try to get to know him better. But don't hang on him. Because sometime this can push him away..
Good luck. I hope i was of help.
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Play hard to get! lol This works sometimes. I'm not a professional. Depends on how much you like him. Go to his games.. etc. again good luck! ↑ |
My 14 yr old daughter is here with me now. She has a secret weapon for you to use on that boy who doesn't know your alive!
Hey I'm samy I'm 14, I had the same thing happen as you. I like a boy and he didn't know i was alive. But the thing is that I don't dress up at all. I don't put on make up or ware fancy shirts, i just ware a t-shirt and jeans. well i really liked him so when a dance came up i went all out and put on a really pretty dress and put on makeup and everything. and then when i got there everyone was staring at me. and the boy asked me to dance and he's the most popular boy in school. All the girls were mad at me. They boys treat me better at school after that. and the boy i like started say hi to me out of nowhere. the thing is that if you don't show your true beauty all the time. When you actually dress up! It makes you look more beautiful than the other girls, because the boys really see the difference, from what you were and are now. So go way out of your way at the next dance. Ask your mom for some help. My mom helped me allot! She's whitewolf.
good luck! from Samy ↑ |
| Ull kno when ur ready ok its not the best thing to do jus cause everyone is doin it the best thing to do to get a guy to notice u is be u don't change be who u wanna b and if he is the guy then he will notice u without u changing u. ↑ |
