Before i start id just like to ask that no one judges me..please.
im only 15 and having my second pregnancy scare.Im not gonna sit here and say im not to blame,because i know i am.i know right from wrong, and i chose to go down the wrong path. but im just soo confused on what to do. its 50/50 and i really need help. i dont even talk to the guy anymore.. hes moving to Toronto for college next year. I cant tell my parents. considering my moms in rehab and is completing 9 months for alcohol addiction right now. and my dad and his new gf would kill me. My dads gf is already taking care of her sons baby.. and i dont wanna put any stress on anyone. Im going to be taking a test in a few days, but wondering if i should wait a couple weeks to see if i was just late for my period? i didnt get it last month or this month wich is why im worried, plus im having symtoms, but it could be because im thinking about it. I Have no job,But i do not wanna get an abortion. Please If Anyone Could Help An Give me Any Adive At All, I Would Be sooo greatful.(p.s the guy does not know im might be pregnant, i know i have to tell him if i am, but for now im not going to. i already know for a fact he wont be here for me)Thanks For Listening xoxo ↓
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| Name: ajb | Date: Jun 28th, 2010 8:13 AM |
| Dear Im 15, i am a mother and my this will be my now 18, just turned 18 year olds second preg. the first one didnt make it, but it was very diff for her to tell us, in fact she didnt tell her dad and didnt want to tell me, but she new that she had too. Yes we as her parents were disap in her but we are her parents and love her very much and were ther for her. We are fortunate enough to not have the probs that your family has at this time but you must take a test, since this is the second period missed, you are pregnant and need to get prenatal care and hve to tell and adult that can help you out. Parents can get upset, we all do, but if they truly love you, they will help you. I would check out some websites for teen assistance during pregnancy I dont know where you live but in my county, there is a pregnany planning center that gives free prenatal care and you can earn everything you need for your baby by going to bible study once a week and takikng the parenting classes and once they baby is born, you still can earn fornula, diapers, wipes, clothes for you and your baby. good luck!! ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Sep 8th, 2010 12:29 AM |
| Are you stressed out about anything? Other than this possible pregnancy? Sometimes stress can cause you to miss your periods. It has me plenty of times. I'd take a REALLY REALLY deep breath and relax and stop thinking about it and just go on with life until you miss another period. LIke I said, sometimes periods are missed because of stress. It doesn't happen just for pregnancy. ↑ |
| Name: MelRobert | Date: Dec 2nd, 2010 1:03 AM |
| Thank you for the advice. but i found out that i wasnt pregnant. but once again am going through another scare. ill post about it ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Dec 10th, 2010 1:48 PM |
| Well geez, then quit having sex. Seriously, you're fifteen, claiming it would be a very bad situation if you did get prego, just quit sleeping with people. Its not that hard. Even condoms and the pill and all those other forms of birth control are not 100%, so I"m not going to tell you to use those. JUST STAY OUT OF THE BEDROOM, and you wouldn't be having these "scares". Not trying to be mean, but someones gotta tell you straight, and it seems no one else has, so I figured I would. ↑ |
| Name: primm | Date: Dec 24th, 2010 11:50 PM |
id love to talk to you, and if u know n e one who needs help n wants to give there child up for open or closed adoption to a good home plse do email me plse
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