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I am soo angry I could just spit. My nine year old daughter called me at work one Friday afternoon to tell me that she had found something very inappropriate laying on the family compute desk. It was a box of condoms that my seventeen year old daughter and her 19 year old boyfriend left after having an afternoon of sex in my home. I don't believe it is the having sex it is that she disrespected our home and neither of them were smart enough to cleanup. It's been about a month now and I just can't get passed being so damn angry. Any advice, I love her, but I really don't like her right now. ↓
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| Name: dmt | Date: Jul 17th, 2007 4:34 PM |
I don't know just a thought. Maybe you could call the health department and see if they have classes on std's and pregnancies and things like that. I would make her go to more than one and I would go with her. If she says mom I know all this I would say sorry if you think you are big enough to have sex then your big enough to sit through these classes. I wouldn't yell but, I would sit down and have a talk with her about how it is not respectful of you to do those kind of things under your roof. I would also explain to her how finding those condoms can hurt your younger child mentally it might get her thinking about sex way before she should. I wouldn't yell but, I would let her know just how mad this makes you and tell her she has younger siblings and if she can not respect your home then her boyfriend will not be aloud in your house. Maybe the classes will help her and doing all this might help you lose some of the anger. You are probably still angry because you are bottling the anger that is not good for you. Well I wish you luck
love,
Michelle ↑ |
| Name: dmt | Date: Jul 17th, 2007 4:40 PM |
One more thing you might not think she wants to here this stuff but, when I got older I wish someone had sat me down and said I shouldn't be having sex before marraige. Also I shouldn't marry until after college. It would of helped me to know what I was doing was wrong I really had no idea. My mother never said anything to me even though she new I was doing it. After I got married I ended up regretting a lot of what I had done in the past. Which if my parents had told me it was wrong I think I would have calmed down some. I don't regret my son but, I also ended up pregnant at 20. Just some food for thought. Good luck.
Michelle ↑ |
| Name: dylyttle | Date: Jul 20th, 2007 12:59 AM |
Michelle,
Thanks for the input on the classes, and I promise I wont' yell. Since I wrote my first message, I have managed to clam down some, and we have talked.
Thanks again ↑ |
| Name: Burn4Me, | Date: Jul 20th, 2007 2:55 PM |
| leave her alone shes 17 go get yaself some action nd stop bullying her cos shes got som1 ↑ |
| Name: CutsBruises | Date: Aug 30th, 2007 12:02 AM |
tell ya what to do
next time there going at it walk in and stare at them.. thatll scare them.. and sit at the end of the bed till they realise ur their and be like sorry im interupting and also make her watch high school musical over and over again. Also sit her down and invest in some puppets and teach her about sex with the puppets i would say to call them..
Abby abstanance and Peter Pierpresher
also
Polly Pregnant and Donny Dropout
itll be such a good time thing ohh and make sure her 19 yr old boyfriend is there when you do it also do her hair for her like they did in hairspray like backcombes and curled at the ends.. thatll teach her a major lesson. ↑ |
| Name: hateitall | Date: Aug 30th, 2007 6:56 AM |
| That was very disrespectful and I think you should talk to her, and tell her that its very unapproprate to do things like that, I think you shouldnt be so angry towards her, she made you mad but the best thing to do is just talk to her about it and make sure she knows how upset she made you. I hope I helped you a llittle bit, good luck with your daughter. and try not to bworry yourself sick over it ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Dec 19th, 2007 4:08 PM |
| cutsbruises, I was lmao when I read your reply! hilarious! ↑ |
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