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My 18 year old and 11 year old sons are extremely jealous of their stepfather. My husband has been wonderful to them. For the past 3 years my 18 year old has completely ignored him. My husband and 11 year old really bonded. They were getting so close. Now my 18 year old has made up these stories about my husband smarting off to him. He has brain washed my 11 year old into being scared of him. Both my sons have told me that they will not come back to my house as long as I am married to him. My ex-husband is encouraging all of this and my ex believes everything the boys say. We have joint custody of the boys. My ex is threatening to take my 11 year old away from me if my ex is around. My sisters and my mom love my husband. They have witnessed how good he is to all of us. This is causing so much trouble for my husband and me. I have told the boys this is so cruel for them to make me choose. I can not afford to pay child support. I don't understand how they could do this to me. My ex got them on tape saying that they hated my husband. The boys are scared to death of my ex. They will go along with anything he says to keep him from being mad at them. My 18 year old twists everything I say around and he puts words in my mouth. I am desperate for answers. I am so happy with my husband. The only conflicts we have had in our marriage is because of my sons and their lies. They have a double standard for their dad and me. They have told me in the past that they do not like their step mom and how they would love to live with me permanently. Now they a have made a complete circle. What can I do? How can I handle this situation? ↓
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