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Name: Jesse

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Hey guys, I am 16 turnin' 17 and I have been having some crazy hormones..I really want to have a baby, but I know I should wait. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years and we have known each other for 8 years. Yes, he is my Middle school/High School Crush!! We love each other so much. I have told him about how I want a baby with him, so he knows. Our realationship is awsome, and I can tell him everything and anything. I am in my Junior year of Highschool and I graduate in 2007!!

I asked him about "what if I got pregnant would you still be with me?" He said "Yes why would I leave you if you have my baby" I have asked him "So...when do you wanna have a baby?" He said maybe after Highschool.

Another thing that I am looking forward to is the fact that we are moving next year after I graduate to a place up in Missouri. My mom said my boyfriend could come So also after we move we will be more financially stable and we would finally be living toghther.

Well..what I am trying to say is that does anyone else feel this way, wanting to have a baby so early?? Is this normal?? ↓

Name: vicky | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 9:44 PM

promises. promises. from the bf.

don't do it.

a baby is not a toy.

it's a lifetime job.

go to school.

have fun.

wait.

you got a lot of years to have a baby. ↑

Name: Jesse | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 9:58 PM

Next year will be my last year in school, I hang out with teen moms and there babies, I have took parenting classes. I know a baby is not a toy. That is not my point. I am very mature for my age. I want to have a baby young, I don't want to be old like a few parents I know and can't even keep up with there children.
If you knew my boyfriend and his family you would know that they are very supportive for there kids. His parents had 6 kids 3 girls and 3 boys. So they have allot of neices and nephews, and they are so cute. ↑

Name: Lisa | Date: Mar 31st, 2006 11:28 PM

Wanting a baby at your age sweetie is nuts! You still need your mommy to support you,and your still in highschool.Get your head out of the clouds and come back down to reality!Get a good education ,a good job ,and then IF your crush is still with you ,THEN think about making babies! Youve got it all backwards kid! ↑

Name: kassy | Date: Apr 1st, 2006 7:20 PM

I wanted a baby so bad. I got pregnate at 14. I had a miscarriage and got pregnate at 17. Now I am 22 and pregnate with my second. It is a lot of responsibility and you never know how much it changes your life untill it happens. Please wait. Your boy might say he will stay now but when you guys have bills and resposibilities and all he wants to do is play around party or be with someone prettier or skinnier he could flake out. Be carefull I know how you feel but i would strongly suggest waiting. ↑