hey, i've been pregnant for 5 months and near 15 years old.
i don't know what to do, and i think i'm going for the abortion.
is this the right choice? pleas help me out. ↓
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| Name: Andrea | Date: Jul 4th, 2006 12:39 PM |
| If you are 5 months along I think you are too far in pregnancy to get one. Most clinics draw the line at 4 months. It depends on where you are, though. Why not put the baby up for adoption? At this stage in pregnancy the baby can FEEL the abortion being done. ↑ |
| Name: shev | Date: Jul 4th, 2006 8:04 PM |
| up to u but no it isnt its selfish trust me i no ↑ |
| Name: kirsty | Date: Jul 5th, 2006 8:23 AM |
| at 5 months i wud never consider an abortion if you wanted want you should of at the start. keep the baby its a real life now. ↑ |
| Name: YASHI | Date: Jul 11th, 2006 4:40 AM |
| HAVE DAT BABY CAUSE IF U DONT UR THE ONLY ONE WHO IS GOIN TO REGRET IT AT THE END ↑ |
| Name: To Yoke | Date: Jul 12th, 2006 8:20 PM |
| 5 months along is a little too late for abortion so instead you either have to keep it yourself or give it up at delivery time. ↑ |
| Name: Rachel | Date: Jul 23rd, 2006 10:50 AM |
For the sake of everything please don't get an abortion. That baby inside you didn't have the choice to be conceived so at least give him/her the choice to live. There are so many men and women in the world who cannot have children in the world and they would die to have a baby like yours.
Please - instead of making the choice to kill an innocent life, give the gift of life to someone that really really really wants it. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 1:38 AM |
| I think 5 months is too late for an abortion ↑ |
| Name: nicole jones | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 1:41 AM |
| 5 months is very late for an abortion.... at 22 weeks a baby outside the womb (dead) is considered still born - not miscarried. A child of 22 weeks could survive (with intesive care) on it's own. That is killing a baby. ↑ |
| Name: evelyn | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 4:24 AM |
| just give it up for adoption. ther is so many people who cant have kids, and will love and cherish your baby forever. you could even do an open adoption if you would like . then you could see your baby, maybe even have visits. ↑ |
| Name: twostepsback | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 10:09 AM |
It's too late, you're too far in.
You should give it up for adoption or ask someone else to take care of it. ↑ |
| Name: bladerunnerx16 | Date: Aug 9th, 2006 1:22 PM |
1. no it is NOT the right choice
2. Does your boyfriend know?
If my girl was pregnant I would at least want to know. ↑ |
| Name: lanai | Date: Aug 11th, 2006 10:33 PM |
| Hey i understand where your comming from...i was 15 when i had my daughter....i chose to keep her and raise her and love her...i think that 5 moths is too late for an abortion and you should give your child to a family who will love it and cherish it and take care of it...i recomend open adoption that way you can visit or get pictures or talk to the baby on the phone...it can ask all the questions it wants when the baby gets older....that kinda thing..... ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Aug 11th, 2006 11:38 PM |
| please dont do it. This is a precious life. Give it a chance. ↑ |
| Name: sgreenwade | Date: Aug 13th, 2006 5:37 AM |
| well, you ask my suggestion I say HELL NO. I dont care if you was 4 weeks pregnant. Y are kids having kids? maybe it was a mistake and i understand that, but u learn from ur misstakes. Yoke, trust me you will regret it. thats ur baby you have to love and take responiblity now. it may be hard cause ur in school still, but if it was me I wouldnt care if i was 14 or 15 i did it and im going to be a women and stand up for my own. YOU FEEL ME? Im not trying to be harsh or any thing like that, and if I was im sorry but please don't kill your baby. ↑ |
| Name: loveguide | Date: Aug 14th, 2006 2:43 PM |
| adoption is the answer. do not get an abortion. face it, you made this mistake and you can't make the baby suffer for it. You have to take responsibility for your actions. would you feel comfortable killing someone? this isnt a something, its a someone. if you need someone to talk to or need help email me at xHxIxTxCxHx@aim.com ↑ |
| Name: babey_g_311 | Date: Aug 21st, 2006 10:11 PM |
| at 5 months thats like taking a newborn baby and killing it because the baby is allready a living person pretty much, I dont even think there is a dr. who would do an abortion at 5 months i think its illegal. Give your child up for adoption so it can have a good life. ↑ |
| Name: icechick | Date: Sep 2nd, 2006 12:09 AM |
Hello all I am one of the many women out there, that will never know what it is to wake up at 2am and feed a baby, hear a crying baby none of them but to mu surprise I was going to be a Adoptive mom and oh HOW HAPPY we was until today, I found out she was not pregnant and she was not who she said she was she was useing some one else name and all so here was my dream gone to the dogs and a empty room and a cradle with no baby to hold. God Bless
icepoohdar@hotmail.com ? ↑ |
| Name: jenna | Date: Sep 5th, 2006 2:02 AM |
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| Name: Steph | Date: Sep 12th, 2006 10:34 AM |
| no not at all abortions are very traumatic and at that age of the baby there is every chance of infertility and depression following... you should have thought of this earlier darling! there are other ways of dealing with this but that is not it... goodluck ↑ |
| Name: granny2be | Date: Sep 19th, 2006 3:45 PM |
| My daughter is 14 and will be 15 when her baby gets here. My husband and I are against abortion, but when she ended up pregnant we still told her she had to make the choice and we would back her up either way....however we thought she should keep the baby. Now she's starting her 15th week, she's been extremely sick with MS but SHE decided that abortion was not the answer. Trust me...even at her age she would (and has advised people on here) not to have an abortion. IF you honestly do not have a strong support system out there...parents, grandparents whatever...then please put the baby up for adoption. ↑ |
| Name: Miss.Punk | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 12:50 AM |
hey i would get an abortiona and pray and would think every day that if i would have had that child it would have been wrong cause i wouldn't be able to give myself a good life at 15 while taking care of a child whom i would have to to give a great life to
do what ever feels right....good luck!!!
my email is apunkielove@yahoo.com
Samantha ↑ |
| Name: winnmom | Date: Sep 25th, 2006 2:30 AM |
| % months along into your pregnancy is to late for an abortion. There are so many families that can not have children, why not look into adoption. ↑ |
| Name: winnmom | Date: Sep 25th, 2006 2:30 AM |
| Name: bladerunnerx16 | Date: Sep 26th, 2006 7:29 PM |
| ABORTION IS NEVER THE RIGHT CHOICE ↑ |
| Name: mommyboo | Date: Sep 29th, 2006 11:44 PM |
| let a family adopt your baby.So many women cant have childrn and want to adopt. I know I am one of them.Think about adoption.If you need someone to talk to feel free to email me.noterdamelady@yahoo.com ↑ |
| Name: jayme | Date: Oct 7th, 2006 8:18 PM |
| i gave mine up so idk other ppl do wut they feel like ↑ |
| Name: bigangel200624 | Date: Oct 8th, 2006 3:34 AM |
NO DONT GO FOR ABORTION.
YOU CAN HELP WOMAN LIKE ME
WE CANT HAVE KIDS
BUT WE WILL RAIS YOUR CHILD OR ANY GRILS LIKE YOU ↑ |
| Name: paulus | Date: Oct 10th, 2006 10:36 AM |
| Do they perform abortions at five months. Since you are so far along maybe adoption is the best choice. Talk to a school counselor. ↑ |
| Name: haleymorgan121 | Date: Mar 4th, 2007 12:07 PM |
| dont do it! i got pregnant when i was 14 and my boyfriend tryed to convince me to have an abortion. i almost did to untill my older brother and his girlfriend talked me out of it. i think the only diference is that i had twins. They are the best things that ever happend to me! They are one and get into everything. You may think of your baby as having a big chore but you are leaving out the hugs and love and joys that you and your baby will share together! may God bless you into making the right decision! ps there is always adoption! ↑ |
| Name: chantel1 | Date: Mar 8th, 2007 9:30 AM |
hi there i do know from experience!!!! i had an abortion five years ago my scum bucket boyfriend wanted the sex but didn't want da bub real nice type stuppid prick!!!!! i'll tell ya what happened his was my senario, and abusive alcoholic mother kicking me out everynight out in da middle od no-where walking the streets till she passed out and it was safe to go home to sleep, falling asleep in the shed to scared to go inside, my lousy b/friend tucked up wif mummy and daddy, didn't give a shit as it was my problem what went on in my house!! and what else? three months is the cut off point for you to hav an abortion. here's what they do. first the get you into your white coat then they take a blood test to make sure you definately still are, oh yeah then whilst ur sitting in the room with the other girls all staring at each other wandering what the hell your doin there they give you a pill to take then they take you into a room where they do your first ultrasound of your baby, your baby has arms feet toes legs eyes, everything! the fucked up father SPERM DONATOR stays outside then while you make up your mind for the last time then yu go to leep wake up 30mins later and your baby's gone. yes gone. now the after senario, oh and don't kid yourself and think that he'll be there for you after, i drove with my partner 6 hours to get there six hours back in the one day so it didn't look obvious then the scum bucket fucked of with his mates as soon as we got home.. yep droped me off at my house then went and sank piss with his fucked up mates!!! there is not a week that goes by when i look into my new daughters eyes that i don't think of that baby, and i even know the due date that MY BABY WAS DUE to be BORN!!!!! and not a year goes by that i don't ask myself WHY?????? SO PLEASE I DO KNOW HOW SCARY IT IS, BUT KNOWING WHAT YOU HAVE TO LIVE WITH FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE IS WORSE!!!! my baby was 9 weeks old and three days and 2.5cm long and yet still 5 years on i still know it every day. your parents will be there for you they might not like it at first but they will come around and if they don't well you know what i think, please don' let a SPERM DONATOR keep you from the best thing you will ever know and have DON"T ABORT YOUR[ YOUR!!!!!!!!!! BABY:( PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| Name: kimbertz | Date: Mar 8th, 2007 11:03 PM |
| Hello I have a beautiful little boy who is 3 that we adopted at birth. The birth mom already had alot of kids and knew that keeping him was not fair to her other kids or to the baby. She also knew that we wanted to be a mommy and daddy more than anything in this world. So she let us adopt him. She truly was our angel. I mean how do you thank someone for a life time of love, birthdays, christmas. Now we would love to give him a little brother or sister so he doesnt have to grow up alone. we would love to talk to you. thanks Kim =khoutz@woh.rr.com ? ↑ |
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