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hi, im 15 years old, male and ive been seriously thinking about killing myself. shit just gets worse and worse. my grades in school are so bad there causing parents to hate each other. i think if i die my parents will love each other again. they've got two other children. its not like they'll be alone. please HELP ME ↓
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| Name: Lana | Date: May 18th, 2007 1:40 PM |
Hey Hon,
I have two teenagers, one is a son who is now 17. He too had some difficult times, and those were our hardest times as his parents. Rest assured, should you harm yourself in any way, your parents lives would be devestated.
Much of what you feel has to do the this time of your life, being somewhere inbetween child and adult and that's difficult and confusing. Some of it also has to do with hormones.
Firstly, stop such thoughts. There's not point, you have an entire life ahead of you. Each and every day offers new hope and new opportunities. Look around you and force yourself to find 'happy' things - reasons to be grateful and happy.
If you can't speak to your mom and dad about all this then speak to someone else's mom or dad or even a guidance councellor at school. People do care but often they don't know you need support. It's important to feel cared for and happy.
Speak to someone, smile as much as possible. Let sunshine on your face. Get Lots of sleep and know your parents love you very much. Their arguments have nothing to do with you - parents are just like everyone else, we are just people trying to make sense of everything and sometimes it's rougher than our kids think. But that does not change certain things - their love for you. Go and speak to them. ↑ |
| Name: chris10184 | Date: May 20th, 2007 9:27 PM |
Hi, m8, please don't kill yourself, if your parents are hating eachover because of your grades they are stupid, i am 15 myself i have been depressed for the last 3 years, but i have held on, just sit down with a hot drink for 10 minutes and think about your future.
Killing yourself will end your parents completely.
PLease dont kill yourself we are both young and you have so much to live for.
Add me on msn we will talk.
[email protected] ↑ |
| Name: chris10184 | Date: May 20th, 2007 9:31 PM |
| Don't kill yourself add me on msn we can talk, [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: lynnie | Date: May 21st, 2007 3:37 PM |
| If you kill yourself it may push your parents over the edge even more,please seek help. ↑ |
| Name: mommyboo | Date: May 25th, 2007 1:59 AM |
| Hey sweety...Please dont think this anymore.Things do get better in life.I know a program that you can go into.When you turn 16.Its called the National Guard Challenge program.AND NO its not signing you up for the army.They just sponser it.What they do is put you in this program and help you get your GED.you are on a military base for 5 months.They feed you and teach you and help you learn a carreer for when your out.I have taken in 2 teens who needed help and theyy are both in it.Its the best thing they have done.If you would like to find out more or you want me to talk to a parent just email me. [email protected] Your family and friends love you and need you. ↑ |
| Name: DefendUs | Date: May 26th, 2007 9:25 PM |
| Dont do it, killing your self really wont make a difference in the big scheem of things, once your gone its over, make a statement, oh and just study harder. ↑ |
| Name: jess93 | Date: Jul 6th, 2007 5:19 AM |
| hey one of my friends thought the same thing and she killed herself and now her paents split and her sister never gets to see her dad cause of it. and her dad is haveing serious problems so please don't do it cause you don't know what that will do to your friends and may make problems worse with your parents!! just keep holding on. ↑ |
| Name: ala4 | Date: Jul 6th, 2007 11:15 PM |
| call 1-800 for a suicide line,your parents only fight because they care and love you,they are already afraid something bad will happen to you,don,t kill yourself,other children cannot replace you...no one will be happy if you do this...they will each be alone with your death forever...do not do this get help instead...they obviously are not recognizing the depression you have but other adults out there are waiting to help you...you are important!!! ↑ |
| Name: CutsBruises | Date: Sep 7th, 2007 9:37 PM |
DONT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| Name: BETH | Date: Oct 8th, 2007 9:23 AM |
DEATH IS NOT THE ANSWER!!!!! YOU LEAVE BEHIND SO MANY PEOPLE THAT LOVE YOU. THEY WILL LIVE WITH THE GUILT OF YOUR DEATH FOR THE REST OF THEIR LIVES. I KNOW MY SON DIED AT 17.
GO TALK TO SOMEONE YOU CAN TRUST AND PREFERRABLY AN ADULT.
YOUR GRADES WILL WORK THEMSELVES OUT. IT IS OK TO ASK FOR HELP AFTER ALL WE ALL NEED HELP AT SOMETIME OR ANOTHER. ↑ |
| Name: oilybabyman | Date: Feb 8th, 2008 8:10 PM |
| you shouldnt want to die cuz its a bad idea, k? don do it you got me? ya heard? don do it! dont!!!! dont do it plz dont!!! ↑ |
| Name: XxEmoBitchxX | Date: Aug 19th, 2008 5:21 PM |
Hey msg me..
My email is [email protected]
We can tlk..
we r the same age!
Im goin through the same thing u r!! ↑ |
| Name: margo | Date: Aug 26th, 2008 12:24 PM |
| please write me i would love to talk to you u have a stupid doctor app. this morning so here is my addy please rite me back [email protected] ....please write me so we can talk ok please.... ↑ |
| Name: Zebra111 | Date: Aug 21st, 2009 5:19 AM |
| High school sucks. but when I left High shool I had the time of my life. wow Please get though high school try more options till you get where you want to be. ↑ |
| Name: dontwant2live | Date: Feb 8th, 2010 1:01 AM |
| hi. I am 19 years old, female. I cant live anymore. I am thinking about overdosing tonight. I just want to make sure i do it right. ↑ |
| Name: Andckids | Date: Mar 2nd, 2010 4:23 AM |
| Hey first of all your dying is only going to drive a wedge further between your parents. Whatever is going with your parents first of all is all about them and not about you. Your problems are a result of what is going on with them. I must tell you a story. My parents were both alcoholics and when I was growing up they were probably the worst parents ever. I did ok in school although they didn't really care one way or the other. I decided that I wanted a different life for myself. I put myself through high school, got a part time job, moved out, lived on my own, and now I have a successful career, 4 kids and a good life. Whateve you want in life is possible. God made you because he thought you were valuable. and you are. Please do not even consider suicide. my brother in law who was 20 recently did kill himself. He left a giant hole in our family. My daughter who was very close to him cries at night still missing him. He has not been here for any events in her life and she is devestated by that. I don't know who you are closest to in your family but think about that person because it will leave a gaping hole in theiir lives if you are gone and it won't do anything to help your parents only hurt them. There are so many phases in life good and bad and as we go through each one we learn new things about life and ourselves. Please give yourself a chance to get through whatever trials it is you are going through. Pray to God for ensight if you are a religious person. God bless you and I will pray for you too. ↑ |
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