Hi if i were you i would just cut her out of your life,she sounds like a bad role model for her children and you dont want it rubbing off on your child when he/she is born!
If you are worried about the children then you could always report her to the social servcies.
You are a caring friend other wise you would not have put this post on here,she is not worthy of your friendship! ↑ |
| Show her your post!! I think that would about sum it up and give her the big picture loud and clear. Maybe it will at least get her thinking about the kind of life shes leading and who knows,maybe it just might do the trick. If it doesn't make her want to change,it will at least make her mad enough that she doesn't want to come around you anymore,therefore solving your problem. ↑ |
Phone Social Services! She shouldn't be living like this whilst she's got kids! She sounds disgusting!
I had a friend who started to get into drugs and I used to visit her with my 5 year old. As soon as I realised what she was doing I dropped her! She also stole money and perfume from me. I wrote her a letter telling her I didn't want to be friends any more.
I think that you're going to have to tell her that the way she lives her life is wrong and that you don't want to involve your baby. You could always tell her that your bf objects as well.
I wouldn't want to hang around someone like that as people will think that you're like this as well and if Social Services come sniffing around they might start looking at you as well! You don't want this to happen.
One thing. When I visited my friend with my son there a horrible man came to the door - He could have been a drug pusher or something. I think she owed him money! I was out in the backyard and I felt really scared in case he got angry about something and started on me too! I couldn't get out as the yard was enclosed and I just kind of hid. It was awful and when he'd gone I left straight away.
You never know if you and your child are going to be in danger because of someone like this. I'd definitely drop her - no matter how you do it! ↑ |
| Hey you know what I would do? Well I would just not awnser the door when she comes around ,and when she rings if you have caller id I wouldnt awnser the phone. I know it sounds harsh but at least this way you arent enemies and if you still see each other down the street or whatever you can still so hi, but she will get the hint if your always not home or you never awnser the phone. Good luck and well done putting your child first! ↑ |
