I am 15 and my mother insists on me wearing fullsized briefs all my friends wear bikini type my older sister still wears full briefs and they both check me before I go out what can I do. ↓
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That's terrible. They should let you choose your own underwear! They sound like control freaks. Stand up to them. Bin all your old stuff and buy new underwear for yourself. Tell them that if they take it from you then you'll go out with none at all on!!! Perhaps that will shock them into leaving you alone. ↑ |
i like your awnser fiona. well said! ↑ |
I dont see your problem susan I am 18 and still wear full sized briefs. I cant wear low slung jeans but I dont mind ,but beware dont wear any thing thin and white you can see your pants and then every one will know the size you wear!!! I speak from one who knows ↑ |
Thanks Fiona but my mother gets me everthing I wear. If i said i would go out without any pants on i would be over her knee and i do not want that sort of humiliation again,my younger sister is still making comments about it in front of my friends. ↑ |
when i turned 12 my mother took me shopping and she saw me looking at some thongs and she gave me that kinda 'i dont think so' look but i after i put it down she said to me you are growing up and you will want to wear those and i dont want you to learn it from ur friends so she bought me a few and now that i dont live with my mom anymore i occasionaly wear a thong when i wear low cut jeans but i kinda ditcched the habbit i just wanted to see what they were like and now that i have i dont really wear them but i have to admit my lingerie collection is fabulous and not plain boring white. ↑ |
If i am right your mother still smacks you does she also make you wear fullsized briefs as a punishment what have you ben up to Susan ↑ |
My mother makes me wear fullsize briefs they are arfull with wide elastic legs and they are covered in flowers yuck i am also 15 if you find away out let me know ↑ |
girls are not stupid and i think it is totally stupid if ur fifteen and wearing full sized underwear dont you occasionally wear thongs or at least underwear with some pattern thats just ur mom being a control freak you need to break away from that.
i have a friend and her mom is lke that and whether she likes it or not i just tell her to her face that she baby her daughter too much she didnt even let her take the bus or train by herself and since i told het that surprisingly a few days after she started easing up. I can be so PERSUASIVE!!!!! ↑ |
Hi susan i am 15 and my moyher buys all my stuff and all my underwear is big and white.She gets it mailorder when she buys her own my friends call me granny pants.I think she dresses me a bit childish she is 60 do you think it is an age thing how old is your mum ↑ |
just tell them that you would like to talk to them (you and your sister both confront them) sit donw at the table and go through these things ask calmly do not lose ur temperr or you have lost them ask calmly and nicely Why aret we allowed to wear the underwear we want? wait for a answer and continue on saying i am 15 yrs old i think i am old enough to make my own dicisions and say you are invaiding my privacy by checking me and ect..ect..ect... ↑ |
I am 15 and i wear big pants its a drag you cant wear lowcut jeans and you have to be carefull if you wear anything white but they are very cumfy. ↑ |
TELL YOUR MOM THEY BUG YOU? ↑ |
Have a friend buy you ones you want and change at school. ↑ |
What if someone sees me changeing and tells on me my mother would punish me thats not a good idea ↑ |
We'll you will be 18 in 3 years. Then you will be able to dress any way you wish. Your mom must be very old school! (sorry!) If you are too afraid of being caught changing,then just wait til you are 18. You will probably have to move out then too though if you choose then not to live by your mom's ways,so keep that in mind. Are the full briefs really that bad? (probably,I know) (sorry!) I would want to wear what my friends were wearing too!! How can your sister stand it? ↑ |
I used to wear bikini pants but wanted to wear thongs my mother said no so i bought some and my mother found out she took me down the shops and picked out a load of fullsized briefs up to my waist i now wear these god my friends think its very funny but i can go back into bikini type in 4 weeks so not as bad as you susan sorry i know how you feel ↑ |
Thanks Rachel but that not much help is it ↑ |
I dont see your problem susan i have always worn full briefs I am 16 now and they are ok my boyfriend thinks they are ok as well so just keep pulling them up ↑ |
Get your mother to buy you sloggi undies they are great she can get you maxi but they are a fantastic fit and when you are 16 she can get you some pantie gidles as well. Isnt that somthing to look forward to you lucky girl ↑ |
Are you mad Ann how could any one look forward to wearing a panty girdle im thin any way I dont think your advice is much good at all thanks but no thanks!! ↑ |
You should be able to wear the kind of pants that you want. When you've had kids you'll be glad to wear big pants as they keep your wobbly tummy covered lol
Tell your mother from me that she is a control freak and she is just jealous as she probably has to wear BIG PANTS!!!!
Cut all your pants up so she gets sick of buying new ones for you. If she hits you then tell her that you'll call social services and report her for abuse of a minor. ↑ |
Thanks atomic snowflake but I wouldnt dare cut up my pants you are right my mother would hit me but I would be in the wrong so i would deserve it yes she is a cotrol freak thanks ↑ |
You sound a right wimp susan why dont you stick up for yourself your mother cant keep on spanking you at 15 and what other things does ahe contol ? ↑ |
Hi rachel yea you are right i am abit of a wimp but maybe that comes with living with a control feak.She picks everything i wear and even my hairstyle i agree im to old to be smacked but its always been like this you dont understand. ↑ |
I dont think you have a mind of your own you let your mother and sister do as they please with you you have to take control of your life NOW strip and dont wear any of there daft underwear and stuff go naked and see what they do they may relise how stupid they have been and you could get a fresh start try it what have you got to loose ↑ |
People who are posting critical stuff - You shouldn't be so hard on her! It's really horrible living with a control freak. My mother was one and she controlled plenty that I did up until I was in my early 20s. Luckily I got out, but it was very hard living with her all that time. She was a bitch and I'm glad to be rid of her. I haven't seen her for over 7 years now and dumping her was the best thing that I ever did!
Susan - you should try to maintain as much individuality as you can, work hard at school, make plans to leave as soon as you're able to. It may take a few years, but if you get a good education and a good job then you can get out and leave them to their sad little lives!
Where is your dad? Can't he help? If he doesn't live with your mother then can't you go and live with him? ↑ |
Thanks Fiona you seem to understand do you think any of the other peoples ideas are worth trying for the short term or do you think they will only make my life worse? ↑ |
Does it matter no one is going to see them anyway,but your mother ehould not be checking on you anyway that is a invasion of your space! ↑ |
I cant wear the same cloths as my friends like low cut jeans my pants would show my friends think they are daft as well ↑ |
You have to make a stand susan do it now not later or just get on with living in big pants stop moaning and act ↑ |
You should be happy susan that your mother buys all your stuff for you i think wearing big pants is a small price to pay are your other skirts and geans fashionable? is your hairstyle nice? think about it ↑ |
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