I'm 16 and was wondering how many other people kept their babies from a rape. I was raped at 14, almost 15 by my teacher. I took the monring after pill at the police station and it obviously didnt work and 9 months latre i gave birth 2 identical twin girls.
I did think about an abortion, but although I am not against it, it was not right for me. I did think of adoption and dec`ided i would if my fears were true and I didnt bond with my children. My mum threw me out and I lived in a council flat. My boyfriend stuck by me until i was around 7 months and then he got a promotion and had to move and I couldn't for other reasons.
When my daughters were 2 weeks old my mum accepted us back into her home and we've been here ever since. They turned one a week ago yesterday and I dont regret having them at all. Their father is out of prison and has been granted access to them. My Poppy and My Daisy are the best things that have ever happend to me, although their conception wass not the romantic and perfect occasion I wanted my children to be made in, I am thankful because they are the most perfect things!
I decided i didnt want to be like other teenage mums, although I know most have no choice, I wanted to carry on my schooling and prove I an intelligentgirl. I sat and did my GCSEs rejoings school on the 7th sept 05! just 4 weeks after the birth. I am doing my alevels 2.
I want to meet or chat 2 sum other mums of children by rape, particularly young mums. I would like to hear other peoples stories and how they are managing.
my email address is [email protected]
or please post here any questions or comments you have. ↓
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