| Name: m.j | Date: Jan 11th, 2010 7:22 PM |
| hey girl i'm 0 with a little boy who is 2and a half 3 in april i was with his father for 5 years i don everything 4 him i lost alot of friends and i had ta grow up really fast we lived together and i don everything i worked cooked cleaned and alwasys had the baby i thought tat was my life i didn't think any other lad would ever look at me so i stayed with him even though i was unhappy until i couldn't do it anymore i put him out and now i'm happy with a lovely new boyfriend it was hard but well worth it its hard but if i done it you can 2 pick yourself up and get out and enjoy yourself ↑ |
| Name: Prash | Date: Jan 23rd, 2010 1:50 PM |
| Sounds pretty rough. But dont give up hope, there's millions of lonely people out there and they all live in the hop that someday somehow things will get better. You must really love your son to give up drinking. I admire your will. I once gave up drinking for my ex-gf ( she had some disease which wouldnt let her enjoy alcohol) and though she isnt around, I still dont drink. I loved her more than anything in the world but its such a cruel heartless world outside. Love doesnt mean a thing in this world. I feel lonely and depressed as hell, but thats life. Hope it helped. Cheers! ↑ |
| Name: nicole | Date: Jan 28th, 2010 3:50 PM |
| Hi, I 'm 34 single mom, before you make that decision to ask him back, please love yourself before. I was in the same situation, my daughter father has no ambition to better his life. He would blame everyone else for his problems. You are very young please that about it, pray on it, before you let him back. Think about the peace you have without him, you can make it, and their is someone out there that would love you for the women you are. I would advice you to get your degree, make a comfortable life for you son and you. I promise you someone would come alone. You should start a single mom group, you would probably meet some new friends that is one the same level that you are. Good luck I will pray for you. ↑ |
| Name: Ben | Date: Feb 24th, 2010 5:32 AM |
| Please don't back to that jerk hun. He doesn't even deserve you. There are so many guys that would give you a chance. You just need to find them. ↑ |
| Name: tayyab | Date: Feb 25th, 2010 3:16 PM |
| Name: Jessica | Date: Feb 26th, 2010 10:13 AM |
I am in the very same predicament. Im 20 yrs old with a 13 mth old girl and I also just got out of an abusive relationship with my daughters alcoholic father. I know what its like to feel alone. Its hard at our age when all our friends are out having fun and we cant because of our responsibilities. Its so hard to find other people that relate to our lives and that are in our age bracket. Older people tend to always be judgmental but DO NOT go back to the abusive father!
I know that the temptations there because you are lonely but you will end up being just as miserable in the relationship as you are now (I know I took back my daughters father back numerous times before i learnt) Without any chance of turning your life around. I would rather than be unhappy alone than having some other miserable bastard making me unhappy!!
So yeah, I just wanted to let you know your not alone. If u ever want to chat. I think that we will have A LOT in common my email address is [email protected]
hope to hear from you x ↑ |
| Name: Izam | Date: Mar 1st, 2010 3:06 PM |
Dear Lauren,
You really did a great job by giving up alcohol and gave your life to your child. I really congratuate your sacrifice attitiude.
I am izam from Turkey. Hope to have your reply to my [email protected] e-mail and cell phone +90-505-6204042
With my regards and best wishes.
izam ↑ |
| Name: Karen | Date: Mar 1st, 2010 9:05 PM |
| Hey lauren my name is karen and just like you im a single mommy of a 4 year old boy. I understand you when you say you feel lonely at times and though in my case I do have friends that care for me I know that feeling. One advice that I give to you, if you plan to get back with the father of your son dont do it just because you feel you need someone in your life or because you need that attention, what this is gonna cause you is you feeling more hurt, recentful towards him and you dont want your son to see that. Why do you want to thru the verbal abuse, you dont need that your better than that. The feeling your having right now will go away, things like this is what makes you a strong woman that you are. and you want to proof yourself and the world that you dont need a man or no one to make it happen. So good luck girl, and make the right decision. ↑ |
| Name: Jsca1 | Date: Mar 2nd, 2010 4:15 PM |
| I'm 29 and I dealt with alot of the same things with my daughters daddy...he hit me for the first time when I was holding her...needless to say he has been outta our lives for almost 2 years. I know its lonely but it will get better with time. I know its easier said than done but I have done it ↑ |
| Name: yazmin | Date: Mar 6th, 2010 1:27 AM |
| Hi Lauren well i'm in the same situation right now i'm unemployed with 2 kids both going to turn 3 year old wearing diapers, I'm trying to find a daycare but most daycares won't accept my kids because they are still wearing diapers so i am stuck wit them and i only depend on the father of my kids if he wants to give me money or ends up waisting it on his bad drinking habits. Life is complicated so much that sometimes i feel the same way as you. I just hope some day I can leave the father of my kids and move on with my life. I am 21 and sometimes i feel like i'm older than that. I really don't have friends so i feel the sameway as you lonely. ↑ |
| Name: derek | Date: Mar 11th, 2010 10:32 PM |
| ya there is guys out there ↑ |
| Name: rock | Date: Mar 21st, 2010 7:53 AM |
| hey lauren dont be upset with life.u know life is starnge and u gotto keep looking what it has for u .there should more power in spirit than the distance between ur goals in life.ur goal can be simply being happy.contact me in u think i m geniune and if u want a second chance in life ↑ |
| Name: bruce | Date: Mar 21st, 2010 9:44 PM |
| please call me 4163163162 ↑ |
| Name: kevin | Date: Mar 22nd, 2010 1:23 PM |
| Name: ga mom | Date: Mar 31st, 2010 6:48 PM |
| Hi i am new at this but I have a 2 year old and my ex was verbally abusive to the point where he was recently brought up on terroristic threats and the charges were dropped because the DAs office thought they would have a better case to bring him up on the larger charge. He is now out of prison and he is trying to get a paternity test to prove he is the father. I work and take care of my child by myself. I do not believe he has a right after everything he has done to be in my sons life unless I make the terms. I can not afford a lawyer and need some sort of guidance on how to handle this. I love my son more than my life and I will do what I need to in order to protect him. There is not enough space on this page to describe what the last few years have been like. If anyone has any suggestions please...please point me in the right direction. ↑ |
| Name: shaz123 | Date: Apr 3rd, 2010 3:47 PM |
| Things will get better. Have you tried joining any mother and toddler groups? It's a great way to make new friends for you and your son. Being on your own will make you stronger and eventually you will meet someone else. ↑ |
| Name: Ken | Date: Apr 10th, 2010 12:38 AM |
| Name: caris | Date: Apr 11th, 2010 3:05 PM |
hi Lauren, my name is Grace and I know what you're going through. I have an almost two-year-old son and in the beginning I felt like I was a discard of some sort that nobody wanted. That was how I got into personal development and nothing has made such a positive impact than that. I now spend time working on myself and taking care of my son rather than feeling sorry for myself. Believe me, right now is not the time to look for new (or old) companionship because you'll end up with the same old shirt!
Give yourself time to decide what's most important for you and your son and the rest will follow. ↑ |
| Name: Lisa | Date: Apr 13th, 2010 2:48 PM |
Hi Lauren
Of Course you dont have to be lonely forever you just need to find a way to meet someone you deserve dont take back youe ex if he's abusive. You done well coping on your own so far, but you deserve more.
Friends and a good partner so you can live a little as well as have a great relationship with your son. He prop feels lucky to have youall to himself but he'd benefit from seeing you happy too! If ↑ |
| Name: lisa | Date: Apr 13th, 2010 2:51 PM |
If you wanna talk more my e-mail is
[email protected] I wrote a page or so and it just disappeared the page closed down so I hope you get this Im also a single parent. Take Care Lisa ↑ |
| Name: lisa | Date: Apr 13th, 2010 3:00 PM |
If you wanna talk more my e-mail is
[email protected] I wrote a page or so and it just disappeared the page closed down so I hope you get this Im also a single parent. Take Care Lisa
This message is for Lauren ↑ |
| Name: Jana1332 | Date: Apr 14th, 2010 3:01 AM |
| hi...so i have never done something like this and right now i think is the best time then ever cause i feel like i have been holdin something in for so long....i fall in love when i was 16 with my soul mate and still till this date he is my soulmate....we had r first child when i was 18...and r second when i was 20...he got into some trouble and left and went to prison.....not a day goes by that i dont think about him..im about to be 24 years old at the end of this month and he has been gone since i was 19 so u see i went thru my second child all by my self...i was so mad at him it hurt so bad that he left me out here because of one stupid mistake he made....i got so mad that after about 2 years of him being gone i stopped talkin to him....not the kids thou i let them talk to him all the time theres not a reason i wouldnt......but lately me and him have started talkin again and its the best feelin in the world i still get that funny feelin....but what im tryin to say is that sometimes being lonely can only make u realize what u really want...... ↑ |
| Name: kz | Date: May 13th, 2010 7:27 AM |
| hi im looking for a lonely wife for fun add me up to my yahoo messenger k_z199 thanks ↑ |
| Name: marc howard | Date: Jun 8th, 2010 5:42 AM |
| im a lonely single asian guy who like to cuddle and kiss ↑ |
| Name: john | Date: Jun 26th, 2010 5:13 AM |
| id love to take you out to dinner and head back to your place for some one on one ↑ |
| Name: alex | Date: Jul 30th, 2010 5:41 AM |
| im lonely to can ypu chat with me ↑ |
| Name: foxx | Date: Aug 6th, 2010 9:56 AM |
| i am a father of a handsome 6yr old boy. i'm looking for a single mother as friend. i know that we will both have something in common. if u are looking for a single father, you can contact me at this chat room or e-mail me at [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: bob | Date: Aug 10th, 2010 12:42 AM |
| yes there are good guys out there.don't take him back,.and yes there are good friends out there.start by going to church. ↑ |
| Name: xxx | Date: Aug 17th, 2010 11:09 AM |
| Name: Chaz | Date: Aug 23rd, 2010 9:13 AM |
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