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Name: Zebracakes
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I found out i was pregnant. Im 13 weeks as of now and I'm scared!! It all started off okay but when I found out y baby's father(we arent together) gave me Chlamydia. At the tie i was with another boy which was my loving and caring boyfried of like 2 months. And we were sexually active together and without e knowing I had thi STD i gave it to him and he broke up with me. That was harder than finding out I was pregnant because he wa the one that was truly supportive of me and my baby. Then my baby's father turn around and deny the baby because he felt like I cheated on him because i had thi disease and he claim I didnt get it from him but he hadn't been tested so how would he know it he gave it to me. This situation is so confusing cause I really miss my boyfriend and I love him cause he has been there for me alot and it just alot for me to handle....Nd i know im not suppose to stre but its been hard... I just need soeone to help me and give me some advice on what exactly hould I be concern about and what should I just ignore!!!
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Name: Ledicianne | Date: Apr 14th, 2010 1:00 PM
First of all, have you got the chlamydia sorted at your local clinic?? That is the first thing you have to do.
Second of all, you need to tell the babys father that the baby is his and if he wants to be involved the offer is there, you cannot force him and a part of him probably does know the baby is his, but he is in a point of denial right now.
So, your boyfriend is annoyed because you gave him an STD, which to be honest is pretty justifiable, all you can do is apologise, tell him you miss him and love him. But don't go too over the top, becuase chances are that'll scare him. Why not suggest you go to the clinic together to clear the chlamydia? If he doesn't want to know however, then there is nothing you can do, I know it hurts to let go of the people you care about but there is another guy out there who will be loving, caring, supportive etc

Hope this was somewhat helpful...
love Anne 17 and pregnant xx 

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