Hi, I have a very similar situation my daughter is also 3 weeks old. Me and her dad had broken up before I found out I was pregnant when I told him he was very supportive and said he'd be there for me... He was up until the 7th month of me being pregnant then suddenly nothing, he wouldn't speak to me, ignored all my calls and texts, I eventually gave up and faced the fact I'd be doing this on my own. When I had my baby he text me asking if he could see her, so he came round to see her and was very quiet and reserved. I just put it down to him being a bit taken back by it all. He told me he wanted to be there for her and if I needed any help just ask, he's seen her once since I don't feel like I'm getting any support and I'm fed up of what I think seems like I'm fighting a loosing battle with him. I know how you feel, it is very lonely sometimes, and I feel exactly the same about my little girl, I feel like I've let her down and as though she deserves better I never saw myself being in this situation but I think she's far better off without him xxx ↑ |