I am nearly four months preggers and I'm 25. The father is 24 and lives in Virginia. I used to live there but just recently left him because I'm tired of the b.s. in what we called a relationship. There was another female he met before me and became attached to her son. They still talk today but of course he and I met, fell in love, and began having children. This is our second child (the first was stillborn). I can't take the fact that he acts as if they are more important to him than me and my children are. She still wants to be with him though she is supposedly gay and this is why I asked him to cut the communication with her if it wasn't about the child.
Also, he was good to me and we'd been through a lot in this last year and a half. The times were good. But he is very childish, a liar, immature, is secretive about his female friends, and is quite disrespectful. I chose to leave and am proud; however, we haven't spoken in a month and I'm wondering if he's hurting just as bad as I am. I have started moving on. I attend church so I can fellowship with other Christians and get to know more about God. I'm afraid, I feel rejected, and I'm a little insecure in my abilities as a parent. If this pregnancy is successful, this will be when my work begins. I'm back in my hometown of Chicago. What do you all think of this situation? ↓
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