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Its me lia, again... I don't know if you guys read my first post its title "the father is younger than me, and I'm about to be homeless" well the thing is that my friend called him 2 days ago to ask for me cuz she didnt hear from me in a minute... For some reason they started fighting over t he phone cuz she cant believe that he is not taking any responsebility. Well he told me that he was 18, and even though I'm 21 I was cool wit that. Come to find out he told my friend "well I aint ready to grow up I'm 16" ewwwwwwwwww I feel sick to my stomach I CAN BELIEVE I SLEPT WITH A 16 YEAR OLD, AND NOW IM HAVING IS BABY I FEEL SOOOOOO NASTY. I changed my # and I dont want him to have it so I sent him an email telling him that if this is in fact true TO FORGET ABOUT MY BABY, THAT I DONT WANT HIM AROUND EVERRRRRRR, HE PLAYED ME LOVELY. Girls I'm so confused what should I do??? Plzzzzzzzzz HELP MEEEEEEEE! ↓
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| Name: a | Date: Apr 23rd, 2006 6:05 AM |
| Name: Kim | Date: Apr 23rd, 2006 10:05 AM |
| I think you shouldnt worry about it, it's not good for the baby, just forget about that guy, what's done is done. He's not worthy you, just try to concentrate on your future life with your baby. I'm 28, and the father of my baby is 22, he's not ready either, he said he hasn't grown up yet for that. So,i just dont think about him as of a helper or someone I could rely on. ↑ |
| Name: lia | Date: Apr 23rd, 2006 6:18 PM |
| thanks kim, but its just the tought of me sleeping with a kid makes me sick, should I allow him to be in my babys life after all he has done to me? and all the lies he has told me? I mean if this guy even gonna be a good roll model for my baby? ↑ |
| Name: Uh Oh | Date: Apr 23rd, 2006 6:18 PM |
| Hey Lia -- That stinks, but what is worse is that his parents can get you for statutory rape, and yes, you could go to prison for that. If I were you I would be careful who I talk to and If you can establish that he lied about his age I would do that with a witness around or tape him. ↑ |
| Name: lia | Date: Apr 23rd, 2006 7:38 PM |
| his parents wont do that, they almost proud that he was with a older woman as they called me, he is such an asshole, and such a little kid I'm starting to dislike him if not hate him!!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: ? | Date: Apr 23rd, 2006 11:27 PM |
Hey Lia
oh my *** i cant believe him! that fustrates me so much to here that u have been played on!!! well at least u didnt know!! he is sick and if i was u i would wait untill he is much older and more grown up to even see the baby if he wants anything to do with it!!! forget him u desurve way way WAY BETTER!!! wow i am really mad at this guy!! just dont have anything to do with him for awhile i think!! i hope that helps, sorry i am abit crazy at the moment but thats just sick! anywayz hope ur ok now!! good luck ↑ |
| Name: lia | Date: Apr 24th, 2006 3:52 AM |
| Thanks ? I would off hope you left your name so we could keep on chattin, but anyways thanks for your advise! I think thats the baest thing to do, I'm going to move to boston (i live now in new york) and im not gonna let him know, and ima just wait and see wat happens... Only time would tell ↑ |
| Name: KIm | Date: Apr 24th, 2006 5:29 AM |
| Hi, Lia, I dont think he'll be good role model for your baby, at least not untill he's grown up, and if he's so irresponsible, dont let him in your life, you wil just make it worse for yourself. Once you cut it off, dont try to put it back- it never works. As for the sleeping with him- well, as i said , it's in the past, move on. I did too. I actually didnt know he was 22( well, when I slept with him, he was 21) untill after it was too late. And I'm not going to let him in my life anymore after the way he treated me- I was his doormat, I thought , that maybe the thought that i'm carrying his baby would change something,but no.. he kept treating me like that, and I kept forgiving him, untill I got tired of it. Right now- I dont have him in my life anymore, and it's so much better now, that I dont have him to remind me about my humiliation. Just move on, he's not worthy you. ↑ |
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